To Scream or Not to Scream – That’s the Question


It’s not a secret that we, men, have big egos. We like attention. Especially from women. And we love to be liked. Few things make us feel better about ourselves than knowing that we rocked a girl’s world in bed. That’s why this joke never made sense to me: “Why do women fake orgasms? –… [Read More]

Does Technology and Feminism Kill Sex and Love in Japan?

Here is an interesting discussion about the reason that Japan has turned sexless over the past few years. A disturbing statistic is cited: about 45% of the girls of ages 16-24 stated that they are not interested in sex or even despise sexual contact.

Make The First Sentence of Your Dating Profile Count


They say first impressions are often the most important ones. I believe this applies as much to dating profiles as to anything else. Your first sentence either intrigues the reader and makes him want to continue reading and finding out more about who the author is, or it will make your profile blend into the… [Read More]

The Only Way to Put an End to Serial Online Dating Syndrome


Why do so many people of all ages, especially in bigger cities, fill their evenings with pointless coffee and drinks dates night after night besides the elusive hope of being smitten by a stranger in 30 minutes which almost never happens? The main reason for this serial online dating syndrome is that when it comes… [Read More]

An Example of Dishonest, Ineffective Dating Advice for Women

The above is a classic example of dishonest, ineffective dating advice. Lets look at the tips that each of the three women get v what it should have been: Joanne – she is being told that she needs to “give guys a chance”. The first and the only advice she needs is to work hard… [Read More]

How to Deal with a Girlfriend’s Whining and Nagging


Expecting your girlfriend to never whine or complain about anything is unrealistic and even naive.  Being at least a little bitchy every now and then is actually part of feminine nature. It’s not a good thing or a bad thing – it just is. Sooner or later, most girls you would start dating will show you that side… [Read More]

The Two Types of Women You Will Meet


There are many ways to categorize women. One very important, yet rarely mentioned way to do that is by women’s attitude and response to dark humor and sarcasm.  One type of women is entertained by it. For them, sarcasm in a man is a sign of wit, perceptiveness, and life experience, unless of course it… [Read More]

How Defining Love Can Help You Put An End to Serial Dating


Defining what love is and how to tell whether you actually love someone has been a challenging task for many generations throughout history. Different writers, poets, thinkers, musicians, movie producers and painter have tried to depict love in one form or another. I, however, believe that the definition of love is very simple – love… [Read More]

Is Contacting Her Ex Ever Ok?


A reader asks: “You are dating a girl and as the relationship progresses (year or so) you begin to notice red flags or basically character traits that just bother you and make you feel like you two are not going to be compatible, BUT you still really like the girl and want things to work…. [Read More]

Avoid These 5 Mistakes When Responding to a Girl’s OkCupid Profile

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Here are five very typical and bad mistakes that so many guys make when responding to a girl’s dating profile on OkCupid/Match that must be avoided if you want to have real chances for receiving a response and connecting with any of them: 1. Stop saying “hi” or “hello”. A female friend of mine logs… [Read More]

Does Calling Yourself an “Independent Woman” Flatter You?


We humans are far from perfect and far from being perfectly logical. Our perception, rather than objective facts, determine our responses to what we hear and see. This applies to dating and specifically – to online dating – as much as to anything else. Just ask yourself  – when a guy tells you that he… [Read More]

Why No One Responds to Your Messages on a Dating Site

online dating no responses

Question: A male reader in his early 40’s asks: “I recently made a profile on a dating site, sent over 30 messages to the women I thought looked attractive and interesting, and haven’t heard back from even one of them. Why do you think no one responds to my e-mails?”    PH Answers:  Obviously it’s hard… [Read More]

Casual Sex – The Double Standard Is Undeniable

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For the past few years I have been asking just about any woman who I thought was smart and insightful the same question about college life – I wanted to know whether there are any long-term or permanent consequences that women suffer from, if they have a lot of casual sex during college, but then,… [Read More]

Your Are As Attractive As Your Worst Dating Profile Photo


One of the very easy and simple things you can do in order to make your online dating profile more attractive is to make sure that you do not post those pictures of you that are not flattering to you. This is important for both men and women, and it is especially important for men’s… [Read More]

Never Stop Being a “Real Man”


You are a real man. Never forget that. And don’t let a few bad dating experiences with uptight, ultra-feminist women, who can’t take a joke and who believe that women’s penis is as big as men’s is change your behavior and make you less interesting when meeting women in the future. No matter where you… [Read More]