Don’t Dissmiss Educated Women with Advanced Degrees Who Like to Read

attractive educated woman readingThere is a lot of bad rap out there, especially in the manosphere community, about women who read a lot and who have dedicated a lot of time and energy to school, obtaining advanced degrees from good schools. Various bloggers automatically categorize those women as ultra-feminists, overly liberated, and non-feminine, who any guy in his right mind should stay away from. I, however, urge you not to automatically make such assumptions and not to dismiss the girls who went to good schools and who dedicated a lot of their life to academic work, as you might miss out on some of the best women out there.

While some highly educated women do fit the stereotype – they have a chip on their shoulder thinking that they are better than others, and they believe that they are God’s gift to this world,  others are very different – they are low-key and don’t feel the need to prove anything to anyone with their behavior or with their degrees.This is where an educated woman’s real, quite confidence kicks in, and it’s very impressive to see when you run into it.

More importantly, the more educated and the more well read a girl is, the more likely she is to be naturally a more interesting person. She knows more and understands more. She is probably less uptight and far more appreciative of a more sophisticated wit and sense of humor, if you can offer that, because she knows how hard it is to find.  If her expectations from a man’s intellect are high, and you happened to meet them, she will appreciate that quality of yours more than other women, because she wants it more and she has a hard time settling for anything less.

Not all women who went to good schools and obtained advanced degrees are aggressive ultra feminists who wish to abandon all traditional values. Having received an advanced degree from a top school or being a member of several book clubs is not the same as stepping all over your co-workers to get that promotion, or refusing to do any traditionally female house work. The women are that aggressive were probably that way long before they went to school. A few college classes is not what changed them and turned them into the overly aggressive beings that they are.

Give the women with advanced degrees and yourself a chance to get to know each other. You might just discover that many of them have to offer personality, sense of humor and approach to life that cannot be matched by those who have not devoted as much time to thinking, analyzing and reflecting on themselves and the world around them.

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