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It’s not easy to approach a girl in a college class where you don’t really have a legitimate reason to speak with. So how do you go about it? Normally, I recommend somewhat of a bold approach, but under these circumstances, I suggest making a few gradual specific steps to break the ice and go from there.

First, if possible, say something smart and thought provoking while participating in a class discussion, so she notices you. Do it more than once if necessary to establish yourself as someone who cares and someone who puts effort into school. Then, after class, while walking by her throw casually while looking at her something funny about the class or the teacher… to see if she responds…  If she does, have a small talk… ask her what other classes she is taking and which one of them she suggests you avoid as really boring….

Then, the next time you have a class together, suggest studying one night together over coffee or something like that. This is a very mild, non-aggressive approach, but the one that’s appropriate under the circumstances.

While studying together, try to flirt, and be funny and interesting and see if she responds to your mild advances. In case you wonder what to talk about, there are so many things that you can bring up – from making fun or admiring one of your teachers or classmates to talking about your and her plans for the nearest future or for the upcoming holidays / vacation. 

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