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Do Men Really Like to Date Bitches (A question from a woman)

Posted on January 31, 2012 by practicalhappiness.com

Question: I’m not sure if you’ve heard of these books, but i’ve a read a book called ‘Why Men Love Bitches’ and i’ve read one called ‘Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man’ and in a way they contradict each other, it would be good if you could do a review on them or your perspective (as a guy). For example, the first book makes it seem as though men are attracted to women who are independent and rely on themselves completely (financially etc), and are attracted to girls who seem like their life is fulfilled regardless of him being a part of it. Whereas, the other book states that men want to be with a woman who they feel needs them & that it is innate for them to feel the need to provide for her/protect her & they wouldn’t feel the need to be with her otherwise.
Obviously, in the end everyone is attracted to different things, but it would be good to get another view.

PracticalHappiness.com Answer: Great question. I guess it could be summarized into whether men really like bitches. I could see how the message that the above books convey seem to be contradictory, and here are my thoughts. Please bear in mind that the following is just an opinion of one man, even though I am trying to be as objective as I can.

First, obviously different men want a different kind of woman. They say that opposites attract, and often it seems to be true. Aggressive “bitchy” women get along with the more sweet and “docile” men, and the very masculine “alpha” males are often attracted to the more traditional, feminine woman.

In addition, here is a number of other observations. Bitchy women might be purely sexually more arousing to a guy, because that’s the attitude that’s sexually appealing – the attitude of a model on a runway who looks very confident or even stuck up, whose nose is high up and who thinks that she is all that. When a woman acts like she is “hot” it makes her look “hotter” to the unarmed male eye, so to speak. This of course does not make her more attractive as a personal or more desirable as a relationship partner.

For some guys, “getting” a bitch and dating one or even having sex with one is a personal challenge. They might have been successful at meeting, attracting and dating the “softer” kind and are now ready to the more difficult conquests. They like a woman who is loud, argumentative and competitive – the one who will disagree just for the sake of showing that she can, and that no one can control her. The one who has to demonstrate her independence in every way possible, and the one who is notoriously hard to get along with.

Other men, especially the ones who are more traditional or conservative in their view of gender roles and values, appreciate more a woman who is conservative and who acts “softer” and more humble in her demeanor. They are not big fans of extreme feminism or women who try to act like men or be like men in every way they can.

Most importantly, I believe that both extremes can be damaging to a woman’s love life. While every woman has her natural predisposition to be more aggressive or more laid back in her behavior, being a corporate overachiever who rejects all gender roles, and who acts like she is always in charge is just as damaging as being a demur, subservient woman who is afraid of expressive herself in any way. In my highly subject view the best kind of a woman is the one who combines a “soft” and feminine nature with professional and educational ambition. Unlike some people out there believe, the two are not mutually exclusive but can actually enhance each other. This kind of woman doesn’t need to run around and announce to the world how strong and independent she is. She enjoys pleasing and enjoys to be pleased.

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Why Men Do Not Approach You

Posted on January 14, 2012 by practicalhappiness.com

Lately, I have been hearing quite a few single women complain that guys are not aggressive enough and that they do not approach women, and don’t come up and talk to them as much as these women would like them to. After speaking with them briefly about this issue, it became very clear to me why this is the case. These women expect guys to do all the “work.” They don’t want to give the men they are interested in or might be interested in any signal of interest whatsoever, fearing that this would make them look needy or desperate. These girls don’t realize that many, if not most, men will not approach a woman if they don’t sense some kind of invitation from a woman.

When a guy is thinking about approaching a woman and he notices that she looks and acts like she is not interested in being disturbed by anyone, this is discouraging to him. A simple smile and an eye contact can and often do go a long way toward giving many guys that little confidence that they need in order to approach and start talking to a woman. This is true in just about any situation.

Making an eye contact and smiling at a guy does not make you needy or desperate. It only makes you look friendly and approachable - exactly the way you want to look if you are interested in having more guys approach you and start talking to you. This might sound like the oldest and the most basic advice, but it’s still as important as it ever has been. You cannot expect a guy approach you if disconnect yourself from the world by headphones and sunglasses (or both at the same time). There is simply no way around it – your eye contact is the most primal and the most essential element of meeting people. And, even though acting stuck up might make you feel like you are cool, it makes you virtually unapproachable to most civilized men.

Dating Advice for Men: How You Dress Matters to Women

Posted on January 12, 2012 by practicalhappiness.com

You don’t need to convince a typical woman how important it is for her to look good. Most women are well aware and are very concerned with the smallest details of how they look – from the hair and make up, to boots and nails. Is it possible then that it wouldn’t matter to a woman how the guy she is talking to looks? I don’t think so. While some women might say that they care about what’s on the inside much more, your appearance – how you dress and how you carry yourself makes a big difference. We all make judgments about people based on how they look. Whether you want it or not, what you wear makes a statement about who you are, and your perception of another person is directly affected by that person’s appearance. Imagine an extreme example – a homeless person who wears ripped up, old clothes and whose hair looks like it hasn’t been washed in weeks because it hasn’t, and someone who is carrying a huge bag with all his possessions, comes up to you and says something very profound and interesting. You will still look at him and listen to him through the “lens” of his appearance. There will be a voice in your head that says “whatever that person is saying can’t be all that important; after all, look at him. If he really knew what he was talking about, he wouldn’t be looking like that.” Is it wrong and superficial of us to think that way? Maybe so, maybe no, but it’s also very natural and very, very common.

As a guy who is interested in making the right impression and attracting women, you should wear clothes that are (a) appropriate for the occasion; and (b) are flattering to your body type, and to who you are.

Being under-dressed is bad but being overdressed might also be a bad idea, as make you look like a poser who is trying too hard. Wearing a suit to a fine restaurant, a show or a concert is a great idea. Where a suit to a dance club or a very casual bar might not necessarily be appropriate, although of course depends on who you are and the exact place you are going to. Above all, you should feel comfortable in whatever you are wearing. Have you ever noticed someone who obviously looked uncomfortable in what they are wearing and they look like they are not in their place? That guy seems to be nervously looking around, fixing his clothes and fidgeting. Be assured that it is even more noticeable and more unattractive to women.

What about all those men who wear suits that are way too big for their body and who look like they wear their father’s suit. This is not a good look. It makes any guy look sloppy and physically unattractive. If you are overweight, it might be a good idea to wear a more relaxed fit suit, but if you are fit, there is no reason why your suit should not fit your body. Spend extra few minutes at the store and extra few dollars to figure out what your sizes are and get the right size of your shirts, pants and jackets. It will undoubtedly make you feel and look better. And there is no question that becoming more confident with women requires that you feel good about how you look and that you actually put yourself together.

When you look better and you know it, every moment of your life might just feel a little brighter. When you feel more attractive, you are more attractive. This will translate into your ability to approach and meet women and to talk to the women you already know in a way that will project more charisma and greater presence. Your clothes alone will not turn you into an attractive man if you otherwise aren’t, but your style is surely an important factor.

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Relationship Advice: “Real” Men Know How to “Take It”.

Posted on January 8, 2012 by practicalhappiness.com

Women love to say that they want a “real” man. But what does it really mean? Does it mean that they are looking for someone masculine – someone who drivers a truck and wears Levi’s jeans as opposed to Diesel? Someone who is over 6 feet tall and has a tool belt that he actually uses? A guy who served in a military? Someone who only drinks whiskey? Perhaps. On the more fundamental level, however, one of the elements of being a “real” man, which is crucial to having a successful romantic relationship means knowing how to handle criticism like a man. They say that in tennis you are as good of a player as your weakest shot. I say that in love, your relationship is as good as your worst days together. If you can’t handle the rough patches in your relationship with a woman with minimum grace, dignity, respect and self-respect, then every next crisis in that relationship will become worse and worse until the inevitable fall out.

A real man knows how to take tough love. When his partner criticizes something about him, he doesn’t get defensive right away or try to get back to her. At first, he considers if there is any merit whatsoever to what she is saying. Is it possible that if he put himself in her shoes, he would have seen the same or similar issues. That guy is proud of pushing a heavy load on weights in the gym, but he is even more proud of not letting a few harsh words to emotionally destabilize him, especially if these words are constructively meant to alert him to something that he could do better. That man appreciates a woman’s openness and knows how much better that is than not bringing the issues up that she has with him and allowing resentment to build up, which is a sure recipe for ugly fights, name calling and other low blows.

Being a real man doesn’t mean that you can never disagree with a woman, get angry or that you cannot give a piece of your mind when needed to the woman you are in a relationship with, but it does means that you should try to benefit, if at all possible, from the negative feedback you get about your behavior, your actions or anything else about you – particularly that which can be easily fixed. Remember – fighting back with a woman is although sometimes necessary, is not nearly as impressive as taking steps to turn yourself into a better man. That’s what “real” men do.

Posted in Becoming a More Attractive Guy, Dating Advice for Men, Relationship Advice for Men, Relationship Issues | Tagged fighting, real man, relationships | Leave a comment

Are You Trying Too Hard?

Posted on January 2, 2012 by practicalhappiness.com

“Trying too hard” – we have heard this expression many times. Most of us notice pretty quickly when someone is trying too hard to be more attractive, and to appear wealthier or more successful. Sometimes, it looks intimidating, but more often than not – it is annoying. One of the big steps toward becoming a more attractive potential or actual dating / relationship partner is making sure that you don’t come across as someone who is trying too hard, as it is a turn-off at just about any stage of dating – from approaching and meeting someone for the first time, to first dates and at later dating stages. Here are some of the more common ways in which both men and women try too hard and often in all the wrong ways:

* Too Much Style. Do you have too much style? Do you look like a runway model or conversely – a clown or someone who hasn’t showered in a month? Do you stick out like a sore thumb with your haircut or hair color, tattoos, piercings, very high heels, very short skirt, or bright colors, thinking that it makes you unique, special and different from everyone else? However, chances are that it makes you come across as weirdo at best. There are more meaningful ways to stand out from the rest than by trying to shock someone with the way you look. Trying too hard to look like Cindy Crawford on one hand, or like Prince, Michael Jackson, or Lady Gaga on the other hand is as likely to make it harder for you to meet someone new, as it is to make the right impression on a first date. Being preoccupied with your appearance will likely make you a subject of mockery rather than admiration.

* Being too loud. Are you overly “articulate”? Do you make your presence known all too well when you enter a restaurant by making sure that everyone hears what you are talking about? Is your laughter too loud because you have too much fun? You might think that what you are talking about is fascinating and is of great interest to the people around you, but most likely the only reaction you will evoke by being loud is eye rolling on the part of those people around who will find your voice and volume nothing other than obnoxious.

* Talking too much. Do you talk too much? Are you draining other people’s energy with protracted monologues about your accomplishments and your challenges, thinking that it somehow makes you look like a hero? It probably doesn’t. Your audience is probably waiting for you to finish, and they might be spacing out and thinking about their grocery list in the meantime. I have noticed how some guys, when approaching a woman, strike up a conversation and will simply not stop talking, not even allowing a woman the opportunity to respond. Many guys could tell stories about the women they went out with, who would simply not shut up. Be assured that excessive chattiness does not make you appear smarter or more attractive. Even if what you say is very interesting, if you are talking too much, it is simply going to tire your date. Having a conversation means having two people talk; not just one talker and one listener the whole time.

* Being too accommodating. Do you always agree on everything with every person you are attracted to or go out with, because you just want to “play it safe” and not ruin your chances? You might think that being too agreeable and too accommodating will make you appear sweet and nice, but it is also a sure way to come across as boring and be on an express train to friends zone. It’s ok to disagree or offer your input on something as long as you do it in a respectful way and do not insist on being right all the time.

* Being too funny. Are you too funny? Do you crack too many jokes? Are you being so sarcastic that it prevents the other person from seeing your serious side? Being entertaining is good, but if that’s the only thing you bring to the table, sooner or later you will be nothing but a comedian to the other person. And being a comedian is almost never equal to being a date or a lover.

* Being “too busy”. Do you run around telling people about how busy and overwhelmed you are with your very important job, very important school, and other projects? Are you too much of a “challenge?” – does it take a week to get a hold of you on the phone, because you take 5 days or longer to return a phone call? Does scheduling the time and place to meet with you for a date sound more like negotiating a business contract with you? Bear in mind that you are probably not the busiest person in the world, so this kind of attitude might just make you look week or enslaved by your own circumstances, or someone who tries to look more important than they really are.

Being attractive is just as much about what you aren’t, as it is about what you are, and it’s just as much about what you don’t do, as it is about what you do. By simply not trying too hard and not giving off that vibe of someone who craves attention or wants to prove something about himself under the pretense of being overly happy or excited or overly important or overly high maintenance, you will in fact be far more attractive. This doesn’t mean that you have to conform and be just like everyone else, but it means that you probably want to find a happy medium between the two extremes.

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How to Make the Wrong First Impression on a First Date

Posted on December 28, 2011 by practicalhappiness.com

First impressions are important in just about any situation, and of course on a first date. I don’t think that first impressions are quite as important as some people make them sound. After all, these first impressions can be deceiving, and later impressions might be either a pleasant surprise or a disappointment, once you get to know a person better. However, still making the right first impression is important and cannot hurt you. A good first impression is just as much about what you don’t do, as it is about what you do. Here are eight common mistakes that both men and women make that lead to making a bad impression and that are quite easy to avoid, but are rarely mentioned:

* Being late and not apologizing about it. Being late on your first date is inappropriate, but it’s not nearly as big of a deal as being late and not acknowledging it, and acting like nothing is wrong. Be assured that even if your date doesn’t call you on that, they are bothered by the fact that you are not only late, but you don’t have the courtesy to say something as simple as “I am sorry I am late”.

* Being underdressed or overdressed. Between the two extremes, I supposed being overdressed is better. However both communicate unattractive things about you. If you are underdressed, it means that you don’t take the occasion seriously, you don’t really care about this date you are going out on, and you might not even consider it to be a date. If you are way overdressed, it might look like it’s too big of an occasion for you, that you rarely go on first dates, or that you have the need to try way too hard to impress your date. If you want to make the right impression, you cannot go wrong with a classic, simple look. This applies to both men and women. There is no reason to dress like a hippie, unless you are one and you are meeting another one. There is also no reason to dress like a runway model when you go out with someone for the first time. Remember – your first date is about getting to know each other and not about making a grandiose fashion statement. Certainly, as a woman, dressing too provocatively is a bad idea if you want the guy to take you seriously.

* Not making an eye contact. I was surprised to observe how many people don’t even look at each other on a first date when they talk to each other. Whether you are shy or don’t feel comfortable looking into another person’s eyes for some other reason, you can’t develop a romantic connection or attraction if you don’t even look in each other’s eyes while you are talking. This doesn’t mean that you have to stare at each other the entire time, but some eye contact is essential. This is a basic, almost a primal law of our animal nature. If you don’t look at your date because you are nervous, make the effort to at least briefly look in your date’s eyes every so often. It will make a big difference.

* Talking too much. This is universally one of the biggest turn offs for both men and women. Being out with someone who talks too much is annoying, tiring and even exhausting. If you are aware of your tendency to talk too much, you must control it. One way to help yourself kick the excessive talking habit is notice how it makes you feel when someone else talks too much.

* Bragging. For some reason, many people feel the need to report on their goals and accomplishments on a first date to someone they just met and barely know. This can also be irritating and can make you come across as a show-off or someone who is insecure about where they are in life. There is no need for chest beating on a first date. There will be plenty of time for the two of you to get to know each other later and tell each other all the good things that you are eager to share in more subtle ways, if you see each other again. Your first date is not the time to sell yourself like a pushy salesman. Like in business, it will backfire and will push your potential partner away.

* Making future plans on a first date. There is not reason to talk about your second date before your first date is over. It might make you come across as overly eager and even needy. Keep a little bit of the mystery. It’s ok to make the other people wonder whether you like them and whether you are going to see each other again. This is the fun part of dating and is not considered “games.”

* Being rude to the service staff. This is more common among men. For some reason, some guys think that making waiters in restaurants feel like servants will make those guys look more important and superior. Nothing is further from truth. Any decent woman would find the lack of courtesy toward the people who serve you to be a huge turn-off and a sign that the guy is probably arrogant and condescending to other people in his life.

* Not knowing when to call it a night. Again, it’s the guys job to end the date on a high note. Don’t wait until you are out of things to talk about and are exhausted from eating, drinking and talking. End your date while you are still interested in each other and are hungry for more.

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Does Texting Prevent You From Meeting and Dating Men?

Posted on December 18, 2011 by practicalhappiness.com

Texting seems to be a blessing and big curse to people’s dating lives. As I walk around the busy streets of San Francisco, I can’t help but be amazed by how many people seem to be utterly and completely consumed at every free moment with texting. They seem to completely disregard what is going on around them. Some of these people are very single and are very eager to meet other singles and yet they do everything they can to avoid any kind of eye contact and any kind of chance of casual interaction with another person, having their eyes glued to their cellphones.

I could walk by a busy bus station, and 20 out of the 25 people will be looking down on their cellphone and texting constantly while waiting for the bus without even acknowledging the people around them. I wonder if anyone of them check their e-mail or dating site apps to see if anyone has wrote to them or responded to their message. If this happens in this city, I am sure that the same is going on in just about any other busy city. Surely, texting is fun, convenient, useful, and a huge time saver. I would never suggest that texting as a whole is bad and we should all stop texting. But is there such a thing as too much texting? Many compulsive texters are “very” single – they are very eager to meet and date people, but their texting habits are killing one essential an fundamental element of flirting that must be present for any kind of casual interacting to take place – eye contact. It is as simple as that – when your eyes are locked on your phone, you simply don’t see other people. You are unable to make a friendly eye contact with a guy. You cannot invite someone to talk to you and meet you. You make yourself look unapproachable.

You might not be interested in meeting guys all the time and you might not want to be approached on the street too often, but as a single woman you surely don’t want to limit your opportunities of meeting guys to just those few hours when you are going out to a bar/club/restaurant with your friends. We all know that the most exciting things tend to happen unexpectedly. You can’t plan where and how you will meet that great guy. Allowing your cellphone stand between you and your non-verbal interaction with men eliminates any chance of you meeting the men around you. It all starts with the eye contact, but eye contact and texting don’t go together. Regardless of how you feel about meeting men out there on the street, taking your eyes of the phone more often and checking out the world and the men around you might just be more fun than texting. Try it, and you might be surprised how people watching and looking at the guys you find attractive translates into new exciting dating and other social opportunities.

Posted in Attracting Men, Becoming a More Attractive Woman, Dating Advice for Women | Tagged dating, eye- contact, guys, meeting, men, texting | 1 Comment

Chest Beating is Not Attractive to Men or Women

Posted on December 11, 2011 by practicalhappiness.com

Chest beating is one of my personal pet peeves. It is as unattractive in men as it is in women. Usually, it makes me roll my eyes when I hear someone talk about how successful, honest, compassionate, spiritual, and otherwise wonderful they are. I am truly surprised by how many men and women are guilty of bragging and chest beating both in the on-line dating world and in “real” life.

For women, bragging is one of the biggest and most common turn-offs in guys. Men are eager to announce to the world how professional, accomplished and adventurous they are, to tell about their new car or a work-our routine, and how they like to play hard and work hard. Many women, on the other hand, love to talk about how independent they are and how they can provide for themselves, how they love to have fun, how many interests they have and how they absolutely love all kinds of food, all kinds of music, and about how much they have got to travel.

Chest beating is never attractive on a date. In fact, if anything it’s annoying to the listener. They would much rather find out about how wonderful you are through your actions and through their interaction with you. You don’t have to all yourself smart and intelligent. If you are, and the other person cares about that side of you and they are capable to appreciating it, they will notice it themselves. You don’t have to announce on your date that you are very sarcastic. That quality is usually obvious to whoever you are out with, whether they like it or not.

If you are independent or otherwise financially accomplished, you don’t have to talk about it. Your lifestyle and the choices you make when buying just about anything will speak for themselves – for better or for worse, and will surely be more effective than pumping your chest about how good much of a catch you are.

Bear in mind that any accomplishment is more impressive when it’s accompanied by humility. That’s what’s most impressive and that’s the combination that gains you the most respect.

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Do Dating Checklists and Deal Breakers Work For You or Against You?

Posted on December 4, 2011 by practicalhappiness.com

It is important to know what you want exactly out of all aspects of life, including what it is that you are after in your love life and dating partner partner. It is also important to know what you find completely unacceptable in another person, as this will save you and other people how you meet a lot of time and effort in making a certain relationship work, which cannot and probably is not supposed to be working.

However, you should only rely so much on your checklists of the things you want and the things that you consider to be deal breakers in other people. This works both ways. Just because someone seems to meet all of your criteria, doesn’t mean that that’s the right person for you to love and be with. I can’t remember how many times I have heard a woman say: “I don’t understand. This guy is perfect in every way. He is everything I have been looking for in a man, and yet I just don’t feel it for him. I am crazy about this other guy, who has all these things that I don’t like, and who doesn’t treat me all that well, but I still want him, and not Mr. Perfect. What’s wrong with me?” I am going to spare you the cliche reasoning that women like jerks. I don’t really believe that. A woman might have a stage in her life when she is into “bad boys” but for most women it’s a quickly passing phase.

On the other hand, you might fall madly in love with someone who seems to have one or more of the really bad deal breakers that you never thought you could accept. Perhaps that other person has other “redeeming” qualities that make up for the flaws that you thought you found unacceptable, or maybe the things that you thought you couldn’t accept aren’t that big of a deal to you after all. Conversely, your judgment might be clouded with the passion or physical attraction toward that man or a woman, and you refuse to recognize the deal breakers that will be a serious problem to you later in a relationship. Whatever the case might be, your list of deal breakers is also not as reliable as you thought it was.

It is evident, therefore, that there is something other than the qualities that we can articulate that make us care about someone, love someone and generally have a romantic and sexual interest in another person. I am not sure it’s possible to explain what it is. Perhaps it is one of the nature’s secrets that it doesn’t want us to know why exactly we find someone so desirable and against what we believe we should be wanting.

Regardless of what the reason is, being aware that there is that other arguably inexplicable element that must be present for you to want to be with someone, because it will remind you that you should rely on your dating checklists and lists of deal breakers only so much, and it will likely make you listen to what your heart, rather then mind, says more attentively – for better or for worse.

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Don’t Put Your Love Life on the Back Burner?

Posted on November 28, 2011 by practicalhappiness.com

In this age of high rent, high cost of living, multiple jobs, school, 1000 tv channels, Facebook, meet-up groups, texting and i-pads, and alike, it’s easy to have an excuse not to have real dating life, romance and intimacy. Many people put their love life on hold because they are “too busy.” I hear people say this all the time – “I can’t meet anyone or date right now because I am looking for an apartment/job, take too many classes in school, don’t have any money, I just moved here and don’t know anyone, I work too much, my car isn’t nice enough, I need to lose a few pounds before I can feel good enough about myself to start meeting and dating people, etc…”

The reality is that there is never going to be the time when you have taken care of everything that you want to accomplish. There is never a perfect, problem free time for meeting people and dating. There are always going to be issues, problems, obstacles, and stress in your life, because this is simply part of everyone’s life. It’s normal. In fact, life would be one boring journey if you had nothing to accomplish and no problems to fix. Some of those daily challenges are well anticipated, while others are unexpected and catch you by surprise. This doesn’t mean that you can’t enjoy that other part of your life, which calls for emotional and physical intimacy. You can and you should. Selfishness is rarely a good quality, but this is one aspect of life where you owe it to yourself to be selfish and to look out for your own interests – to enjoy dating and love and not let anything else prevent you from doing so.

You might say: “Well, I don’t have hours to go out to meet people or have dinners or other entertainment that dating usually involves, so why even bother?” However, my research clearly indicates that when it comes to dating, something is much better than nothing, and having a great time with someone you like doesn’t mean that you have to linger for hours. You might not be surprised to find out that as busy as you might be, other people have just as much on their place as you do or more, so they can probably relate to your time constraints, and they might have similar limitations as well. But, most people’s experience shows that when the two people want to see each other, they make it happen despite any obstacles. This seems to literally be part of our nature.

Life without love can hardly be a balanced and fulfilling adventure. For better or for worse, no one but you can help you make the time out of your busy schedule to meet and attract the people you want. If you make the time to meet people and date, you will be surprised how many other very busy people out there who are struggling to make the time to meet people, but who will also put a lot of effort into spending quality time with the right person, who they are interest in and find that special chemistry with.

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