Having a great dating life and relationships is not only about what to do but also about what not to do. Avoid making these mistakes to be a much more attractive guy to women.
Many dating experts suggest that one great way to “pick up” a woman is the so-called “one-minute approach” – you see a woman, approach her, strike up a quick conversation, then you tell her that … Continue reading
As I point out in my videos, articles, and audio programs, analyzing the process of dating with your date chills and/or kills romantic tension faster than almost anything else. Therefore, seemingly harmless statements or questions that get into … Continue reading
Here is a common scenario that many guys who try to meet women on the online dating sites experience: they contact a girl, exchange a few e-mails, and then ask her for her phone number. … Continue reading
A few weeks ago I set up a blind date for one of my tennis buddies with a girl. She is educated, professional, quite attractive physically, feminine, not uptight, easy to talk to, and can take … Continue reading
One of the more common mistakes guys make when texting girls without ever realizing how big of a mistake it is, is as simple as it may be fatal to developing any kind of attraction and … Continue reading
Learn how to compliment women the right way and make you come across as a more attractive and charismatic guy. Continue reading
The other weak move, besides asking a girl to hang out with you, is asking a girl who you started seeing recently, or who yo went out on a date with, how her day is going. This question sounds … Continue reading
One of the more common complaints that I hear from women about the guys they meet, is that so many guys are boring or at least come across as boring. This even includes some of … Continue reading
Chemistry – we all use this word, and we think we know when we have it with someone, even if we have difficulty defining it. There are also sure signs when you don’t have chemistry with the … Continue reading
One of the major mental difficulties that guys face when trying to think of what to say to a woman they would like to start a conversation with and meet is thinking that they have … Continue reading
Dating at 25 is a lot different and a lot harder than dating at 20 and 21. It was easy back then because all you had to do was go to class, and you would probably … Continue reading
There are many times when you should be calling and not texting the girl you are interested in or are already dating, but this video talks about three of the most common situations when calling the … Continue reading
We all have stereotypes just about anything, and… that’s also kind of a stereotype, isn’t it? A woman starts stereotyping as early as after being approached by two guys at a bar. If both of them were drunk and used … Continue reading
“So, what do you do for a living?” – This is one of the most cliche, unoriginal questions that people, especially women, like to ask the guy they just met. This question it’s also my personal … Continue reading
Talking too much when out on a first date or even at any time before that first date when you just met someone new is one of the most unattractive things a man or a woman can do. Talking too … Continue reading
For a while I couldn’t figure out why it bothered me so much hearing other guys ask women out by saying something like “What are you doing tonight?” until it dawned on me that it … Continue reading
You met a very attractive woman. Perhaps she is physically more attractive and more desirable to you than any other woman you have ever met in your life. Getting closer to her and having sex with her … Continue reading
“Trying too hard” – we have heard this expression many times with respect to both men and women, who appear to do or be too much in order to come across as more attractive or … Continue reading
Handling mixed signals that women send to guys is one of the challenges that men face when attempting to initiate a romantic connection with a woman. Before we discuss how to deal with those mixed … Continue reading
?As I was pulling out of the Miami airport in my rented Subaru and was merging onto a freeway, not knowing the way to my hotel and stalling the traffic behind me, a large, heavily … Continue reading
Almost every dating book on the market talks about the importance of first impressions when it comes to meeting, flirting and attracting someone. Many dating advice guides go as far as to say that a … Continue reading
It is quite possible that the next woman you meet and like is on the “rebound” – she just recently broke with someone or was dumped by someone or otherwise disappointed in a guy who … Continue reading
Have you ever had a marketing person contact you, introduce a certain product to you and intending to follow up with you to “close” the sale? Was he the one calling five times a day … Continue reading
Banter, along with teasing and flirting, is one of the most effective and fun ways to build attraction when you meet someone for the very first time or on a first datem, especially if you … Continue reading
Some people have a habit of saying certain things when they meet someone for the first time or when they are out on a first date that hurt them much more than they may think. … Continue reading
Being “aggressive” with women is an interesting concept as it’s one of those few qualities to which women may refer in a positive or a negative way, depending upon the ways in which a particular … Continue reading
At one point or another, every guy wonders about the answer to this question – how often should he call the girl he met and started seeing in order to maximize his chances to be … Continue reading
I keep hearing stories from my friends about how they travel to Europe for just a few weeks and end up falling in love with someone while there, after being single at their hometown for … Continue reading
Plenty of articles were written about the common courtesy of not answering a cellphone on a date, as it is generally considered rude and inconsiderate toward the person you are out with. However, I believe … Continue reading
For years, the concept of being a challenge in dating has been marketed to both men and women. It has been suggested by different dating advice sources that to be more desirable, you have to … Continue reading
The other night I went out to one of my favorite clubs in the city. It has great music, good energy, the “right” crowd, and a low key vibe that’s not easy to find on … Continue reading
In our society, men are often told not to be too forward or too pushy when approaching women and asking them out. Indeed, being too forceful and too direct with a woman who barely knows … Continue reading
Being presumptive is unattractive to women at any stage of your interaction with them. Here are two actual examples that I recently observed of how being presumptive turns women off: 1. Today, I witnessed an … Continue reading
I am not the biggest fan of being a “challenge” when it comes to dating, at least not as it is presented by some sources of dating advice, who suggest that making yourself purposefully unavailable, … Continue reading
There is a lot written out there on the importance of being “alfa” or being a high status male, and yet even the guys, who seem to know what it takes to be a leader … Continue reading
Every time I witness a certain behavior by a guy that is clearly motivated by a bad dating advice, I can’t help but get angry at all the sources of that mediocre, generic, useless or … Continue reading