Practical tips and advice on becoming a more attractive guy.
I have been thinking recently – almost every time I have been mentioning to anyone I meet that I play tennis, most people say almost exactly same thing in response: “I love tennis, I used … Continue reading
As I point out in the article about whether meeting a great guy is a matter of luck, standing out and not acting like everyone else can be very effective in finding and attracting that special guy, … Continue reading
Recently, one of the readers asked the following questions: “I recently responded to a girl’s dating profile. I wrote a nice, witty, and interesting first e-mail to her. I signed it with my name and … Continue reading
More and more people complain about the lack of originality that the opposite sex seems to be suffering from these days when it comes to dating – from flirting to first dates, and of course – … Continue reading
One great obstacle that many people face toward improving their dating life is believing that meeting more people and being able to find someone who you would love and someone who would love you back is something that you either have … Continue reading
Like defining a classy woman, defining what being a classy man means is not an easy task, as there is probably no one clear definition or one trait or quality that makes a man classy … Continue reading
A few weeks ago I set up a blind date for one of my tennis buddies with a girl. She is educated, professional, quite attractive physically, feminine, not uptight, easy to talk to, and can take … Continue reading
One of the more common mistakes guys make when texting girls without ever realizing how big of a mistake it is, is as simple as it may be fatal to developing any kind of attraction and … Continue reading
Some people like to point out that they have great, fulfilling life, a great job and an active social lifestyle, and they don’t need a partner, as they are prefectly fine to be alone, but they … Continue reading
It is important for anyone, who wants to meet, date and have a relationship with a very attractive, desirable woman, to understand how such women make their initial choices when it comes meeting and dating men. An … Continue reading
Entitlement mentality or as it’s otherwise known – sense of entitlement – is a big turn off to most people, who know better when it comes to meeting people and dating. It’s important that you too … Continue reading
You met a very attractive woman. Perhaps she is physically more attractive and more desirable to you than any other woman you have ever met in your life. Getting closer to her and having sex with her … Continue reading
Women love to say that they want a “real” man. But what does it really mean? Does it mean that they are looking for someone masculine – someone who drivers a truck and wears Levi’s … Continue reading
“Trying too hard” – we have heard this expression many times with respect to both men and women, who appear to do or be too much in order to come across as more attractive or … Continue reading
Chest beating or bragging is one of my personal pet peeves. Chest beating is as unattractive in men as it is in women. Usually, when someone braggs about how wonderful they are and how accomplished they are … Continue reading
Have you ever had a marketing person contact you, introduce a certain product to you and intending to follow up with you to “close” the sale? Was he the one calling five times a day … Continue reading
Banter, along with teasing and flirting, is one of the most effective and fun ways to build attraction when you meet someone for the very first time or on a first datem, especially if you … Continue reading
Most people want to change something about themselves. For some, it’s just an adjustment of an existing quality/skill that they are seeking, while others wish to completely transform themselves in one way or the other. … Continue reading
From the earliest years of our lives we exercise that great skill we are given as humans – our ability to learn by observation and imitation. This is how we learn how to walk and … Continue reading
Herd mentality is a fascinating concept. It was first introduced by a German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche, and it basically suggests that (some) people tend to follow what others do without giving it much thought of … Continue reading
The other night I went out to one of my favorite clubs in the city. It has great music, good energy, the “right” crowd, and a low key vibe that’s not easy to find on … Continue reading
Do you know someone who won’t stop talking about how difficult his/her life is and how many hardships he has? Do they usually start a conversation with how much they can’t stand their boss and … Continue reading
Becoming a more attractive person is just as much about what you don’t do and don’t say as it is about what you do. One of the most effective ways to identify your possible flaws … Continue reading
Many people would suggest to you that one of the best things you can do in your interactions with others (whether social, professional, or romantic) is being yourself. While those frequently used words sound compelling, … Continue reading
Like with your confidence, the best way to improve your body language with women is a natural way – by creating reasons to have a better body language, rather than acting or pretending like your have a good body language. Continue reading
Neediness is rather a common epidemic. One of my girlfriends called me in tears some time ago. Another boyfriend had broken up with her and she was clueless of the real reason. “He never returned … Continue reading
It is unfortunate that so many guys out there honestly believe that they are entitled to meeting, dating and having a romantic relationship with that perfect person without doing anything, or doing very little, about … Continue reading
Few people are able to truly accept and appreciate (and benefit) from the criticism of others. But this is just one reason as to why it is really worth it for you to learn to … Continue reading
Have you noticed that the best cafes and restaurants do not have the fanciest and the flashiest lobbies and the most expensive decor? Did it occur to you that the bars and clubs with the … Continue reading
Most dating advice programs and books for men discuss women’s tests in one form or another, and for a good reason. These tests usually involve women’s behaviors or statements that push a guy in a … Continue reading
One of the most common questions guys ask me when they seek dating advice is how to impress a woman who they like and who they are thinking about asking out, or they have already … Continue reading
A single woman, who hasn’t been completely frustrated in her experiences with men and who is not excessively jaded, craves a romantic experience and dreams about meeting that guy who will bring romance into her … Continue reading