Developing Confidence with Women
Tips and advice on becoming more confident with women.
Your confidence is just like any muscle. You are born with a certain degree of confidence. Practice will make you more confident and lack of practice will make you less confident with time. This is why guys who start dating after divorce and after being out of the game feel so incapable of approaching and… Read More ›
A reader asks a question on how to handle the ups and down in confidence and whether it’s normal. I believe it’s completely normal for one simple, yet compelling reason. There are ups and downs in just about everything – our mood, our behavior, our patience, courage, etc… On some days we feel great, motivated… Read More ›
Most people want to change something about themselves. For some, it’s just an adjustment of an existing quality/skill that they are seeking, while others wish to completely transform themselves in one way or the other. So, why is it that so few people actually succeed in changing and improving themselves? I believe that one of… Read More ›
Insecurities and lack of confidence are one of the biggest challenges and barriers in a man’s road toward becoming more successful with women and dating. In order to overcome and eliminate those insecurities with women, it is essential to understand what their sources is and what causes that lack of confidence with women. While surely… Read More ›
One of the discouraging effects of most kinds of growth we, humans, experience is the “two steps forward, one step back” effect. Almost any kind of growth is associated with inevitable temporary setbacks and decline before further development takes place. Perhaps this is one of the reasons that new years resolutions don’t work all that… Read More ›
One of the things that discourage guys from working toward improving their confidence with women is that they believe that the truly confident guys are confident all the time, in every situation, with just about every person. It is unrealistic, however, to expect to be confident with women all the time. It is unreasonable to… Read More ›
I remember taking a bus through the city and sitting next to a girl. I wasn’t even thinking about talking to her as I was consumed with my cellphone conversation with a friend (in a foreign language). As soon as I got of the phone, she said: “Wow, that sounded interesting…” We started talking and… Read More ›
It’s not a secret that one of the biggest obstacles that men have toward approaching very attractive women is the fact that they are intimidated by them. When a man hears that these women are just like all other women and that there is no reason to be intimidated by them, he might believe that… Read More ›
Effective, practical tips on becoming more confident with women and avoiding common, misleading advice on confidence.
As I point out in my newsletters and videos, online dating and matchmaking sites are great sources of meeting single women. When you go online, you instantly have access to hundreds or thousands of women who you would never meet before. Most of those women are single, and many of them are attractive, intelligent, educated… Read More ›
It’s hard for many of us to go out and see so many attractive people out there and continue believing that we have what it takes to meet and attract them, and not let thenm slip away and be with someone else, who might be more desirable to them for one reason or the other…. Read More ›