Archive for the 'First Date Advice for Men' Category

Jul 14 2010

Cellphones on a Date – Give and Expect “Full and Undivided”

Plenty of articles were written about the common courtesy about not answering a cellphone on a date, as it is generally rude and inconsiderate toward the person you are out with. However, I believe that checking your cellphone compulsive, whether it’s for time, or for incoming text messages or e-mails can be just as rude [...]

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Apr 12 2010

Five tips on asking a girl out on the first date the right way

So, you decided to ask this girl out, but you are not sure how to go about doing that. There is so much conflicting and confusing advice out there on asking women out on a date, that it’s hard to figure out which advice is most useful in your specific situation. Indeed, [...]

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Oct 24 2009

Don’t set your first date during lunch!

Daytime first dates, such as lunch dates are a bad idea for several reasons. First, daytime in itself is not very conducive to romantic interactions and creating attraction. Even more importantly, the time pressure of lunchtime itself will likely destroy much of the potential for romance between you and your date. The idea that both [...]

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Sep 01 2009

Five Questions You Should Not Ask on a Date

Top 5 Questions You Should Never Ask a Woman on a Date
Many men literally kill attraction between them and the women who they go out with by asking them such questions that communicate all the unappealing and unattractive qualities of those men. To be successful at dating and talking to women, you [...]

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May 19 2009

Why You Shouldn’t Take Her Out to Dinner on a First Date!

I remember watching an episode of “Sex in the City” in which one of the female characters (who was named Charlotte in the series) set two first dates one after the other on the same evening, and she was complaining to one of her friends about not knowing how she was going [...]

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Feb 19 2009

Two Major First Date Turn-Offs!

I have asked many women which qualities they find attractive in men and which traits, in their opinion, are the biggest turn-offs. Bragging and arrogance turn out to be by far the most common answers to this question. And this is not surprising. Bragging and talking too much usually go together and [...]

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Jul 25 2008

Top Ten First-Date Mistakes Guys Make with Women!

In order to do well on a first date, not only should you do certain things right, but it’s just as important not making the very common first date mistakes that sabotage the opportunity to develop attraction with a woman for so many guys.
Below, is a list of ten typical mistakes that [...]

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Jul 10 2008

Sex on a First Date

Anyone who is familiar with my advice in videos and audio programs knows that I don’t advocate a particular lifestyle or a particular set of standards when it comes to dating, relationships and sex. I don’t like prescribing strict rules to things that are so uniquely individual and so different in every situation, depending on [...]

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Feb 21 2007

One Major Turn-offs on a First Date – Bragging

I have asked many women which qualities they find attractive in men and what their biggest turn-offs are. Bragging and arrogance turn out to be by far the most common turn offs on a first date or any subsequent date for that matter. And this is not surprising. Bragging and talking too much usually [...]

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Jul 10 2006

Avoid cliche, typical, boring conversations on a first date!

Literally all sources of dating advice out there teach guys a similar strategy on making a conversation with a woman when they meet her or during the first date – and that strategy is asking her open-ended questions about herself. This sounds like it would make sense as this kind of conversation [...]

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