Tips and advice on attracting more and better guys.
Recently, one of the readers asked the following questions: “I recently responded to a girl’s dating profile. I wrote a nice, witty, and interesting first e-mail to her. I signed it with my name and … Continue reading
More and more people complain about the lack of originality that the opposite sex seems to be suffering from these days when it comes to dating – from flirting to first dates, and of course – … Continue reading
It’s not a secret that men are attracted to women who are feminine on just about any fundamental level – biologically, physiologically and sexually. Femininity is probably the single most attractive quality in a woman … Continue reading
Too many women believe that meeting a quality, interesting, ambitious, confident, and funny guy is a matter of fate, luck, or some mysterious set of circumstances that will bring you and him together by total … Continue reading
Here is a recent posting from the Craigslist missed connections w4m section in Northern California: “To the gentleman I sat next to on the 33 bus around 1:30pm today… I got on at Dolores Park … Continue reading
As I point out in my videos, articles, and audio programs, analyzing the process of dating with your date chills and/or kills romantic tension faster than almost anything else. Therefore, seemingly harmless statements or questions that get into … Continue reading
One great obstacle that many people face toward improving their dating life is believing that meeting more people and being able to find someone who you would love and someone who would love you back is something that you either have … Continue reading
The other day I had dinner with my friend and his girlfriend. They have been dating for just over a year. She was feeding him, but… not across the table, like you would normally see, … Continue reading
Some people like to point out that they have great, fulfilling life, a great job and an active social lifestyle, and they don’t need a partner, as they are prefectly fine to be alone, but they … Continue reading
“You are beautiful on the inside and out, you should be proud of who you area, you should continue to be yourself, and you deserve the best of everything that this world has to offer.” - … Continue reading
What is femininity and why it makes a woman so attractive and desirable to men. Continue reading
How the bad dating advice in “The Power of Pussy” can hurt your dating life and relationships with men. Continue reading
Almost every popular dating advice book for women out there says that men like chasing women, and that guys chase the women they really like, want to go out with and date. These books urge women to make themselves deliberately less available … Continue reading
Feminism is one of the more controversial social movements, and in part because it doesn’t have a universal definition, and different people have a very different understanding of what feminist movement is about and what it … Continue reading
Today, I have received a common from one of the readers to the posting about whether men are attracted to smart, successful women. To me the fact that the writer responds that way to the … Continue reading
Few men like uptight women and women who act like they are some kind of royalty, who should be treated like a very expensive and fragile artifact. In fact, I don’t know any such men except … Continue reading
You don’t need to buy another dating and relationship guide to meet more guys. You don’t need another subscription to a Cosmo or a similar magazine. You don’t even need to set up another dating … Continue reading
Talking too much when out on a first date or even at any time before that first date when you just met someone new is one of the most unattractive things a man or a woman can do. Talking too … Continue reading
Entitlement mentality or as it’s otherwise known – sense of entitlement – is a big turn off to most people, who know better when it comes to meeting people and dating. It’s important that you too … Continue reading
Lately, I have been hearing from quite a few single women that guys are not aggressive enough and that they do not approach the women they seem to be interested in meeting and that all they … Continue reading
“Trying too hard” – we have heard this expression many times with respect to both men and women, who appear to do or be too much in order to come across as more attractive or … Continue reading
Texting seems to be a blessing and big curse to people’s dating lives. As I walk around the busy streets of San Francisco, I can’t help but be amazed by how many people seem to … Continue reading
Chest beating or bragging is one of my personal pet peeves. Chest beating is as unattractive in men as it is in women. Usually, when someone braggs about how wonderful they are and how accomplished they are … Continue reading
One of the biggest complaints men have about the women they meet and ask out (at least in manyareas of the US and the world) is that they are flakes – they don’t follow through and/or … Continue reading
Almost every dating book on the market talks about the importance of first impressions when it comes to meeting, flirting and attracting someone. Many dating advice guides go as far as to say that a … Continue reading
It is often suggested that men care about a woman’s looks much more than about personality, while women can overlook the physical appearance of a man if his other qualities, such as his personality, sense … Continue reading
Generally, a single woman who is interested in meeting men does not want to give the opposite sex the wrong impression, and yet many women post photos on their online dating profile or even social … Continue reading
From the earliest years of our lives we exercise that great skill we are given as humans – our ability to learn by observation and imitation. This is how we learn how to walk and … Continue reading
I remember running into my classmate at a restaurant during my second year of graduate school. It was a fairly cold winter evening, but she was wearing a tight tank-top and short white shorts that … Continue reading
I keep hearing stories from my friends about how they travel to Europe for just a few weeks and end up falling in love with someone while there, after being single at their hometown for … Continue reading
Herd mentality is a fascinating concept. It was first introduced by a German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche, and it basically suggests that (some) people tend to follow what others do without giving it much thought of … Continue reading
“When a strong, independent woman fears letting her feminine side out, she can become overly independent and controlling. She will attempt to manage the people and events in her life so she feel in control. … Continue reading
Plenty of articles were written about the common courtesy of not answering a cellphone on a date, as it is generally considered rude and inconsiderate toward the person you are out with. However, I believe … Continue reading
I am sure you have heard guys use the terms “unapproachable”, “stuck up”, “snoody”, “intimidating” in reference to certain women who they find it difficult or impossible to approach and meet because of a certain … Continue reading
Do you know someone who won’t stop talking about how difficult his/her life is and how many hardships he has? Do they usually start a conversation with how much they can’t stand their boss and … Continue reading
In an attempt to look and feel the best that they can, many single women naturally invest a lot of thought, time, and money into their clothing, make up and other accessories. However, like in … Continue reading