Do you want to know how the dating advice industry easily deceives both men and women into buying all kinds of dating advice books and programs that are bound to fail? The answer is very simple. The idea is very similar to the marketing strategies used in many if not most other industries – promising instant results and instant fixes. It is common to see the following sales pitch to a dating advice book: “Learn this brilliant pick-up line on page 146 of this book and you will be able to meet any woman, anywhere any time.” or “Learn this one shocking reason why you are still single and start meeting more and better men tomorrow.” These are just some of the classic examples of ways that the “dating gurus” exploit the mental state of those men and women who are eager to do whatever it takes to change their dating life overnight.
Thousands of single people continue falling for these cheap scams, unwilling to recognize the inevitable, compelling truth that like all other skills and qualities, becoming a more attractive person and building a better dating life is a gradual process that requires gaining knowledge, observing correct, attractive actions and behaviors in others that will set an example, self-improvement, reflection on one’s own behavior, growth, and quite a bit of patience.
So stop wasting your hard earned money on products that promise instant results in any endeavor, including dating. There aren’t magic words out there that will turn you from shy to outgoing, from jealous to confident and secure, from boring to fascinating, from boring to funny, and from out of shape to ripped and physically irresistible overnight. But with real work and with applying real, proven to work strategies, you will gradually but necessarily become more attractive to and more successful with the opposite sex.