VERY FEW PEOPLE look years younger than their actual age. Almost everyone looks their age and this is a beautiful thing. If you are 50, what is wrong with looking 50? I have yet to meet a woman who is 45 or 50 and looks like a 30 year old. That would be weird anyway. I luv and have luved every one of my ages. Some days I may look a bit younger than I am and some days I may look and feel like I’m 180. LOL!

Your second example shows that this person defines himself by what he does not who he is. He apparently doesn’t know much about himself. Lacking a little in self confidence. Although he does express some of his interests but not specific enough. I ask, who doesn’t like BBQ’s? Most people like to go for walks or hiking the only difference is the scenery. Watching baseball?? would that be on TV or going to baseball games. There is a big difference. So I would have to say just about anybody could be a possible match for this person. I agree it generically boring.

Your third party boy. Can you imagine being in a relationship with him? You would get no attention because his friends get it all. You might be able to tag along sometimes. I bet you would get stood up because he got caught up with his friends. He would just tell you to get over it because his friends are more important. Absolutely no committed values what so ever. He would be better off being gay.

Last but not least the best of the bunch… A little sarcastic, a little chip on his shoulder. Impulsive can be good but can also get you in trouble. A little restless, perhaps adult ADD, stays up late, how does that fit in with a working… what is that he does working that could keep him up so late often.

This fellow has a sense of humor, has an attitude, is witty, is opinionated, judgmental, a little outspoken and adventurous. He has a softer side when the time is right. He has a mixture of some good boy, bad boy going on.

Could make for an interesting date. I would at least check it out.

Great post!