Apr 10 2009
House Parties and Meeting More and Better Women
Interested in meeting more and better single women? Then, make this one, simple promise to yourself and commit to not breaking it: promise to yourself to go to every single house party that you are ever invited to. Simply commit to never declining invitations to any social gatherings at someone’s home or someone’s workplace. These events are some of the best opportunities to meet women, and naturally these situations are radically different and in many ways create a dynamic which is opposite from the one you would encounter at a bar or a club.
While in just about any other environment, you have to worry about (a) breaking a woman’s defenses; (b) making eye contact; (c) figuring out how to start a conversation, and all the other typical obstacles that guys face when approaching and meeting women. These obstacles, however, naturally do not exist at house parties and work related events. First, a woman has no reason to put her defenses up at a house party. She naturally feels safe when invited to the social gathering of someone who she knows or who she know through her friend. She will also assume that you are also “safe” because you belong to the same network and you have been invited by someone, so in a sense you are already “pre-screened” as far as she is concerned. The woman will also not be affected by the typical stigma associated with meeting guys in clubs and bars, as house parties and work related functions are considered perfectly legitimate places to meet people. No girl would be ashamed to tell her friend that she met a guy at house party or a staff appreciation day at work. Lastly, and most importantly, you have to at least introduce yourself to everyone at a house gathering, because it’s rude not to, so you will inevitably have to talk to the woman (women) you are interested in.
A house party might only have one or two women who you might be interested in meeting, unlike clubs with dozens of women or more dancing around and drinking. However, your chances of meeting that one or two women at a house party are much higher than approaching girls at a bar or in many other situations.
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