It is unfortunate that so many guys out there honestly believe that they are entitled to meeting, dating and having a romantic relationship with that perfect person without doing anything, or doing very little, about being a more attractive guy who will actually deserve to have a better dating life.
It is very important to understand, however, that just like in a professional world, succeeding in meeting and dating that special person depends very much on the effort you will put into becoming that special, attractive man yourself. You simply cannot expect to attract an intelligent, confident, positive, mentally healthy, rational, physically fit woman if you cannot offer all or most of the above qualities yourself.
Thus, one of the very first steps you should make toward improving your dating life is making yourself a more attractive guy to that potentially wonderful woman that you want to meet and attract so much. Make yourself grow and improve yourself as in individual in different aspects of life. It’s easy to get busy with improving yourself, because there is so much you can do to increase your value to the opposite sex: become physically more attractive by exercising regularly, go back to school to become a more educated and aware person, start reading and be interested in what’s going on in the world to develop a more interesting personality, watch classic movies and spend time with interesting people to become a more interesting company and develop refined sense of humor, learn how to play a musical instrument, learn a foreign language to broaden your horizons, learn how to cook a few dishes, learn how to dance, and last but certainly not least – get your hands on some quality dating advice that will guide you in the right direction toward improving your skills of interacting with the opposite sex and will help you avoid all the typical mistakes that so many other people make at all stages of dating that sabotage their chances of finding great love.
Surely, improving yourself in one or more of the above-mentioned areas will take time and a considerable amount of work, but the efforts invested into becoming a more attractive man will be well worth it. As soon as you start developing yourself in one or more areas of life, that process itself before you even reach any significant progress will make you both feel better about who you are and be naturally more attractive to the opposite sex thus necessarily improving your dating life and many other aspects of your life. After all, everyone wants to be around a more interesting person, which will open many new exciting social and professional possibilities for you that extend far beyond finding dating partners.