Responding to a woman’s online dating profile is particularly challenging when she does not say much about herself or doesn’t say much at all. While some women who decide to look for love online put a lot of thought and effort into writing an interesting and compelling oneline dating profile, quite a few women out there don’t really care and don’t put much effort into how their dating profile looks. The challenge is responding to that kind of profile in a way that would be interesting and would compel a woman to write back. The good news is that women who don’t write a lot on their page get the worst e-mails from guys. Between generic, uninteresting messages and inappropriate, sexually explicit come-ons from guys who don’t have much to go by except the photos they see, if you write a message that actually says something relevant and different, however simple it might be, it will likely make you stand out. Since you don’t know much about the woman from her profile, there is only so much you can say. One great way to start your message in this case is by addressing just that – the fact that she didn’t write much or didn’t write anything at all on her page. Your first message could be as simple as that: ”Hey there. You don’t say much about yourself on your page, but… I guess it’s better than saying too much like some people do on here, who seem to love to brag about how wonderful, accomplished and honest they are. Well, I am sure you know what I mean and you probably read your fair share of profiles that seem to look more like promotional pamphlets. So… why are you so brief anyway? And how are you spending these days and evenings?” or something along those lines.
You can be assured that you will probably be the only guy who writes something relevant and meaningful to that woman, and she is much more likely to notice your message.
