Surely it’s not a secret to you that physical attraction is of paramount importance to a man’s romantic interest in a woman. Well, the truth of the matter is - this applies to women’s attraction towards men as well, although perhaps in a different way.So, what if you are overweight? Should you be liking and respecting yourself for who you are and continue to be reluctant to lose weight just to be more attractive to the opposite sex?

The are two answers to this question - the easy one and the hard one. Like in many other areas of life, in this case the more difficult solution is the one who is much more likely to be rewarding, making a real difference in your life. Many overweight women resort to an “easy” solution of blaming men for being superficial and refusing to lose weight in order to be more attractive to men. This easy solution is nothing but an excuse to not take action - to not improve her appearance, self esteem, dating life and … literally all aspects of life. If it’s change that you are after - if you want your romantic life to be better, this solution is not for you, because it will not lead to any change.

The other, more challenging but also a much more meaningful solution to excess weight is making an uncompromising decision to not settle for the body in which you are living today. The process of losing weight, which includes the old true components - proper nutrition and exercise - will affect every single moment of your life. Imagine feeling lighter, more energetic, not breathing as heavily when you walk uphill or up the stairs, being able to engage in different sports and actually enjoying it. Imagine becoming healthier and living longer. Imagine getting the looks of admiration from guys around you and especially those men who see you and your body change. Imagine your confidence and self-esteem sky-rocket as you overcome this challenge. Imagine becoming a more happier person who radiates positive energy and starts attracting the opposite sex not only with her body but also with her personality. All of those incredible changes are awaiting you if you decide to not settle for mediocre body and mediocre life.

Life rewards initiative and action in virtually every aspect. Losing weight and making your body healthier and better looking is not an exception to this rule.