Apr 19 2010
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Hi,
I randomly found one of you videos on you tube after watching a parody of dating situation, and wow, your advice is exactly what I needed! Some of things you have said are things that my ex-boyfriend told me (you are naturally beautiful and you don’t need to wear makeup, it actually detracts from your natural beauty) and he used to tell me that when I wore costume jewelery (aka not expensive gold jewlery) that it’s almost like putting stickers on a Jaguar! I thought that was pretty funny and it leads me to think that we as women often dress to impress other WOMEN and not to attract a man. I am overweight and am exercising everyday and watching what I eat to lose weight, because you are right that it really does effect your ability to date, and instead of being hurt by this I understand it, as I desire to be a fit and healthy person, and someone who is overweight does not really project this. I also agree that being overweight it probably one of the worst things for a person’s self-esteem and confidence, and just based on that I know that I often come off as unapproachable, even to guys that are interested.
I would like to order an actual book copy of your book, rather than an e-book. Do you have that option? (I couldn’t seem to find it)
Thanks for sharing all of your advice and its so refreshing to hear a lot of things that I intuitively knew, are actually true!
Emily
Hi, Emily. Thanks for your kind words. I am glad you found my advice useful and resonating with your personal conclusions.
I had a book out originally on amazon, but it had a lot of typos as I couldn’t afford editing at the time I wrote it. Now it’s in the process of editing and being revised. I plan to update the e-book and also have a hard copy within two months from today at the most.
I noticed that it’s out stock on amazon right now but might be available elsewhere. I hope to have a new, updated hard copy as soon as possible.
Thanks again.
A.
Hi. I really have a situation going her.
I was incited to a party of a friend of my and the was she. I already knew her about 2 years, but we really never got very close to each other. Now at this party she was very delighted to see me and she sat on my lap that night. She was very kind and nice to me and I got the impression that she liked me. At that party I was invited to another party some other time. That girl was gone be there also, so I thought why won’t I. So at the second party she was first shy but later she came sat on my lap again. I ask for it that she came sat on my lap but she did it very enthausiastic. We also sat just the two of us behind the partytent but there wasn’t going on much. I already got her numbre and she texted me that she finder it not very practical to make out with me cause she was a little sick. So I texted back that we will do it another time. She said oke and we should go swim. I asked if her girlfriend of the first party also came along. She said that she didn’t care. I thought it would be beter that it was just going to be the two of us. But I promised it to the girlfriend. So they came for a swim at my house and at the very begin of that day I felt very uncomfortable because of her girlfriend. Well nothing happend at day but I arranged that we go watch a movie that night earlier the week. My friend should come to because we went also together to the partys. He came first and he sat at my sofa in my room. I told him that I was gone sit there if she came but he refused. And than I already knew it was going to be a shit night. She was talking way more to him then to me and I feld kinda forgotten. I managed to hold her hand gently that night but it didn’t feld like a big a deal for anything. And that’s my problem. The next day I texted her because I finded to early to call and the text messages she send were very short like she wouldn’t take the efford to type a normal text message. The previous night she did asked me if we went swimming tomorow. But that day she said a friend asked her to go to a themepark. Now I’m going in 2 days on holiday and I find it, just as you said in your videos, too greedy to call her. But I also think that after my 3 week holiday it’s to long a go to ask her again to go out with me. What do you think I should do? I’m really confused by her actions.