Sometimes, you have to listen to your mind. Sometimes you go out expecting to pick up, meet and talk to women but soon after getting outside your house you realize that you just don't have it in you that day - you feel that you are unable to pick up anyone on that night. You have two options: you can listen to your inner voice and just not try to approach and meet any women at that particular time, or your can try to get psyched up and force yourself to try and talk to women despite how you feel.

I suggest that you don't push it! If you realize that the way you feel on any given evening is an unusual, bad mood and an inappropriate mindset for picking up women, and it's only a matter of time until you feel better, then don't push it! Do something else, focus on dancing, listening to the music and socializing with your friends. There is no point in pressuring yourself into talking to women if you are just not feeling it on a particular night. Wait and that anti-social feeling will go away and will necessarily be replaced by a more positive mindset where you will feel comfortable approaching and meeting women. This can happen the next day or even if half an hour. Moods change - sometimes they change by the hour.

Just like when you are feeling down and know that your workout is not going to be great and you prefer to skip a work-out, you should remember that it's just not worth trying to pick up a woman when you are not "feeling it."

I should note that this should only happen on a rare occasion where you feel that you lack the confidence and the "vibe" that you wouldn't even enjoy talking to women because your mind is simply not there. Don't use this as an excuse to not talk to women every other time you are out; just remember that everyone has a bad day on occasion, and you have to listen to that voice in you and wait until it goes away.