Online Dating: Four Early Signs That Messaging Her Is A Waste Of Time

(Last Updated On: 06/27/2017)

online dating attention whore You may have heard that a significant amount of women on dating sites are not there because they want to meet someone to fall in love with or even date, but for other, less “legitimate” reasons, such as using dating sites to get attention from guys, like they use Instagram, or out of sheer boredom. It’s important for any guy, who is trying to meet women online, to recognize these early signs, so that you can save yourself the aggravation of wasting time pursuing someone who simply cannot and should not be pursued.

1. Her Photos Are Too Sexually Suggestive And Scream For Attention

If a woman’s photos look like they belong in Playboy or even Sports Illustrated, chances are that she is looking for nothing more than just attention from guys and validation of her beauty, and she is already getting too much of it probably. You can imagine that these types of pictures bring hundreds of dirty messages into that woman’s inbox every week, so connecting with someone like that is virtually impossible both because of her mindset and because of what she has to deal with on the same dating site. A worthy woman who is serious about meeting someone is not going to post these types of pictures.

2. Her Profile Is Empty 

If she just posted pictures without writing anything about herself, this shows how little effort she is willing to put into her profile and how little she cares about meeting someone on that site. A woman who is serious about finding any type of connection online will at least say a few words about who she is, what she is looking for, and what she wishes to avoid.

3. She Takes Way Too Long To Respond To Your Messages

If she is taking more than 2 days to respond to your messages, chances are that she doesn’t even pay attention to the site through which you are exchanging messages, and she doesn’t really care about getting to know you. This is especially true if she doesn’t even explain / apologies for these delays in responding. We all know that women are constantly attached to their phones, so there can be no other reason why she wouldn’t respond to your messages except that she just doesn’t care. Therefore, you shouldn’t care either and move on as well.

4. Her Responses To Your Messages Are Very Brief 

If you take the time to write a nice message to a woman, ask her a few questions about herself, and she responds with a couple of words without answering your questions, which shows that she didn’t even bother to read your message, then you shouldn’t invest any more time in talking to her.

Did I not mention any other obvious signs? If so, please share your experience and comment below.

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