Most guy "lose" in their endeavors of approaching and meeting women way before they actually make a move. It all starts with the eye contact! Just think of the typical reality of an attractive, single woman who is interested in meeting men. Where she goes, she knows and fees that guys are checking her out and some do it in the most obvious ways. However, whenever she looks them in the eye, these guys turn their eyes away feeling guilty and embarrassed about looking at those women. This happens over and over, and creates an impression in a woman that almost no guy has the confidence and the guts to look at and go after what he wants - not even with his eyes.

This is great news for you! Because now you know that you can stand out easily and conspicuously from most other gusy with your eye contact. You know that you are going surprised those girls who expect to have a guy look away when they look their eyes with you and you maintain eye contact without looking away. They are going to know right away that you are a different and a much more confident guy when you look them in the eye, and then smile and waive at them, saying "How is it going?" without making a big deal out of it.

Surely, developing this ability to maintain eye contact with women and not look away or down will take time. The habit of looking away is many years old for most men and it will take some work and patience to abandon it. But with time and conscious effort to maintain a strong yet friendly eye contact with women, it will become your second nature.

And remember, you have nothing to be embarrassed about when you look a woman in the eye. You find attractive what you see and if she is not bright enough to recognize that and take it as a compliment, it's her problem; not yours!

Eye contact is one of the most powerful weapons of attraction that you have in your arsenal. Make sure you know how to use it and you use it to your advantage. This doesn't mean that you should be staring or making inappropriate disrespectful comments to women like some guys, who don't know any better, do. But this does mean that you should look a woman in the eye as if you were proud of liking what you see and showing it to her and not a bit embarrassed of it.