Comments on: “From “Hi” to Phone Number” – real, unedited chat on a dating site! http://www.practicalhappiness.com/unedited-singles-chat-and-getting-her-number-online/ Practical Dating and Relationship Advice Fri, 10 Feb 2012 07:20:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Marmot http://www.practicalhappiness.com/unedited-singles-chat-and-getting-her-number-online/#comment-3675 Marmot Thu, 16 Sep 2010 20:40:14 +0000 http://www.practicalhappiness.com/?p=73#comment-3675 "decomposer917: Which one is you on the photo by the way – the dog or the woman? decomposer917: They are both cute!" An awesome neg :) A compliment, but it makes her wonder a bit, and like the previous lines about kindness and lack of pretense, steered the conversation the right way. I've had a lot of success with messages and chats normally, but most girls' profiles that I see nowadays are just blank, empty or filled with "I'm fun and want someone fun" on-liners, and they don't respond well to the "you don't say much about yourself + fluff" openers. That makes my online dating a satisfying and frustrating experience at the same time. “decomposer917: Which one is you on the photo by the way – the dog or the woman?

decomposer917: They are both cute!”

An awesome neg :) A compliment, but it makes her wonder a bit, and like the previous lines about kindness and lack of pretense, steered the conversation the right way.

I’ve had a lot of success with messages and chats normally, but most girls’ profiles that I see nowadays are just blank, empty or filled with “I’m fun and want someone fun” on-liners, and they don’t respond well to the “you don’t say much about yourself + fluff” openers. That makes my online dating a satisfying and frustrating experience at the same time.

]]> By: practicalhappiness.com http://www.practicalhappiness.com/unedited-singles-chat-and-getting-her-number-online/#comment-921 practicalhappiness.com Mon, 26 Jul 2010 06:49:44 +0000 http://www.practicalhappiness.com/?p=73#comment-921 It can be, but it depends on the context. If it's obvious based on the prior conversation that the girl has a sense of humor and can handle sarcasm, "whateva" will be harmless. It can be, but it depends on the context. If it’s obvious based on the prior conversation that the girl has a sense of humor and can handle sarcasm, “whateva” will be harmless.

]]> By: Owayne http://www.practicalhappiness.com/unedited-singles-chat-and-getting-her-number-online/#comment-919 Owayne Sun, 25 Jul 2010 09:05:26 +0000 http://www.practicalhappiness.com/?p=73#comment-919 I think the 'whateva' part is kinda too much! And If I were a girl id be kinda hurt. What do you think? I think the ‘whateva’ part is kinda too much! And If I were a girl id be kinda hurt. What do you think?

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