Comments on: Why being too nice is not sexy and attractive to women! http://www.practicalhappiness.com/why-being-too-nice-not-sexy-and-attractive-women/ Practical Dating and Relationship Advice Fri, 10 Feb 2012 07:20:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: John http://www.practicalhappiness.com/why-being-too-nice-not-sexy-and-attractive-women/#comment-5684 John Thu, 29 Dec 2011 16:08:35 +0000 http://www.practicalhappiness.com/?p=44#comment-5684 You state that you dont give bad dating advice and a lot of the stuff you write is good but i really dont understand this 'nice' issue. In fact saying women like men to be aggressive and pull their hair in public is pretty bad dating advice. It also conflicts with so much more of your advice. Being nice is essential to maintaining and starting healthy relationships, discouraging encourages men to act arrogant which doesnt keep women intersted. Please people, being nice is definatly a good thing, brad pitt is nice to his partner and his fans. Only damaged goods type females would appeal to a man without manners and has anger problems, aggressiveness prevents career progression too so these men get sacked and dont have jobs, aggressiveness is not good and is bad for society. You state that you dont give bad dating advice and a lot of the stuff you write is good but i really dont understand this ‘nice’ issue. In fact saying women like men to be aggressive and pull their hair in public is pretty bad dating advice. It also conflicts with so much more of your advice. Being nice is essential to maintaining and starting healthy relationships, discouraging encourages men to act arrogant which doesnt keep women intersted. Please people, being nice is definatly a good thing, brad pitt is nice to his partner and his fans. Only damaged goods type females would appeal to a man without manners and has anger problems, aggressiveness prevents career progression too so these men get sacked and dont have jobs, aggressiveness is not good and is bad for society.

]]> By: Mickey http://www.practicalhappiness.com/why-being-too-nice-not-sexy-and-attractive-women/#comment-5468 Mickey Thu, 17 Nov 2011 03:52:04 +0000 http://www.practicalhappiness.com/?p=44#comment-5468 Jessi: What you said is just one more example of women assuming the absolute worst about guys. Nice is not automatically synonymous with boring or gutless. Then again, with the world being as man hating as it is, it's par for the course now that women do not expect men to do anything right. Jessi:

What you said is just one more example of women assuming the absolute worst about guys. Nice is not automatically synonymous with boring or gutless.

Then again, with the world being as man hating as it is, it’s par for the course now that women do not expect men to do anything right.

]]> By: Jessi http://www.practicalhappiness.com/why-being-too-nice-not-sexy-and-attractive-women/#comment-5425 Jessi Fri, 11 Nov 2011 06:15:40 +0000 http://www.practicalhappiness.com/?p=44#comment-5425 I'm a Christian woman, but my values are true for all women when it comes to men. God made men different from women for a reason. Men are strong dominating creatures because they have been given dominion over earthly things. Women are submissive because they are supposed to be an assistant to men and are to submit to their OWN HUSBANDS. But that's another topic. I believe that these things may be, dare I say it, instinctual. A woman will find it hard to date a man she doesn't believe can protect her, has a mind of his own, nor is confident in himself. More so, he seems less interested in getting to know one another and more focused on making her "like" him. Desperate even. Your personality has to go past that. Arrogant, self-centered men seem to have things going on in life. Their personalities have depth. They talk about themselves enough for us to get an idea of who they are. The only thing a nice man has going for him is having manners. When you leave us we can only picture you sitting at home doing nothing but waiting to see us again. BORING! We have nothing to go on, to compare you to, to love. You're just a "nice guy". Nice is a given, it's not exciting. It's not spontaneous or different. It's what's expected. Tell a joke, have friends and interests of your own, tell us about YOUR day. I’m a Christian woman, but my values are true for all women when it comes to men. God made men different from women for a reason. Men are strong dominating creatures because they have been given dominion over earthly things. Women are submissive because they are supposed to be an assistant to men and are to submit to their OWN HUSBANDS. But that’s another topic. I believe that these things may be, dare I say it, instinctual. A woman will find it hard to date a man she doesn’t believe can protect her, has a mind of his own, nor is confident in himself. More so, he seems less interested in getting to know one another and more focused on making her “like” him. Desperate even. Your personality has to go past that. Arrogant, self-centered men seem to have things going on in life. Their personalities have depth. They talk about themselves enough for us to get an idea of who they are. The only thing a nice man has going for him is having manners. When you leave us we can only picture you sitting at home doing nothing but waiting to see us again. BORING! We have nothing to go on, to compare you to, to love. You’re just a “nice guy”. Nice is a given, it’s not exciting. It’s not spontaneous or different. It’s what’s expected. Tell a joke, have friends and interests of your own, tell us about YOUR day.

]]> By: Pete http://www.practicalhappiness.com/why-being-too-nice-not-sexy-and-attractive-women/#comment-5325 Pete Sun, 23 Oct 2011 12:33:32 +0000 http://www.practicalhappiness.com/?p=44#comment-5325 No wonder why women end up with self-centered, arrogant men and then wonder why these men aren't attentive and accomodating. No wonder why women end up with self-centered, arrogant men and then wonder why these men aren’t attentive and accomodating.

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