Comments on: Why women do not like nice guys!

By: Mickey

Mickey — Thu, 17 Nov 2011 22:59:31 +0000

I also know that you can never be a loser if you never lost what you never had.

By: practicalhappiness.com

practicalhappiness.com — Thu, 17 Nov 2011 22:35:54 +0000

Ok. And just and FYI – here, in San Francisco, the problem of hostility and snoodiness is as high as anywhere, and I can very well relate to how you feel. I am not sure what is driven by – desperation, fear of coming across as interested, taking the notion of being a challenge way too far, expecting men to do all the work, or being scarred by past disappointment, but I know one thing – when you become a victim of your own past, no one loses except you.

By: Mickey

Mickey — Thu, 17 Nov 2011 22:25:06 +0000

Practicalhappiness.com:

I think we’ll have to agree to disagree on this one.

First, you have a zillion different websites, books, blogs, etc. screaming from the rooftops how all men suck, how men are dogs, and the like. If you don’t believe me, go to Google and type “men suck” in the search engine and see how many hits come up. Obviously, this is not an isolated sentiment.

It’s real easy to say “don’t give up”, but those words have a hollow ring when one keeps trying and all one gets is failure, failure, failure, more failure, and absolute failure. If all that’s out there is failure, with no reasonable hope of success, I would think that it is not unreasonable to pull the plug and stop the bleeding.

With the large majority of women wearing their man-hating hostility and unapproachability like badges of honor, I’ve got to believe that the dating game is seriously rigged to hose guys at every turn. Most guys just don’t have a prayer anymore when it comes to approaching and attempting to date.

Having gone through enough failure already to last a lifetime, I’ve long since thrown in the sponge on this farce. Well into middle age, I’m admittedly far too cynical (based on prior experience) to be an idiot who believes in “romance”.

All of this is a myth, a fantasy, a pipe dream, and pie in the sky. It all adds up to UNREALISTIC!!! And if you believe that the percentage of heartless women is less than my 99% figure, I’m willing to split the difference with you: I’ll say only 91% instead.

By: practicalhappiness.com

practicalhappiness.com — Thu, 17 Nov 2011 19:23:41 +0000

Although Mickey’s comment is entertaining to read, it is hardly the best solution to anyone’s dating problems or dating “drought.”
There are many heartless and controlling women out there (and men too) but I am sure the number falls far short from 99%. This doesn’t mean that you should give up on looking for the better kind. There are out there, and they are just as eager to meet the right men, which are also far and few in between from their perspective.

By: Mickey

Mickey — Thu, 17 Nov 2011 03:55:55 +0000

Frank:

I agree that 99.9995% of women are heartless, controlling, and stuck-up. However, don’t switch sides; it ain’t worth it, dude. Just find a hooker, pay up, and be done with it.

By: Mickey

Mickey — Thu, 17 Nov 2011 02:26:05 +0000

Dan:

You are SO FREAKIN’ RIGHT!!! Trying to find a good woman is nothing but an exercise in futility. I gave up trying over 25 years ago and haven’t missed anything since. In this day and age, women truly hate men and this is nothing but sleeping with the enemy.

When women start crying about how they can’t find a good man, I tell them immediately to START LOOKING UNDER THEIR SHOES!!! Since women step on guys at every opportunity, that’s the most logical place to look.

It’s far better to just get out of Dodge than to put up with one man hating woman after another. As much as women whine about the lack of romance, they also refuse to admit that it’s their own politically correct male bashing that killed it!!!

By: Samos

Samos — Thu, 04 Aug 2011 21:32:35 +0000

I am 26 I had a couple of girls, the first one i met saw me as a nice guy, she decided to cheat on me taking her plaesure elsewhere…per say with her formal Boy friend. so, when i found out, i cut the relationship. So the Second thought she was smart taking same step…Well i took the relationship unserious cos after tellin me she got nothing to do with her Formal boy friend, She is topping it up behind my back. Now, i just got a new un comparable figure 8…this time i got to play my game tight….so i tried to Nice neutrally…not too harsh and not too pushy…i tried to be passionate and she loved it…

By: Gregg

Gregg — Fri, 29 Jul 2011 02:42:28 +0000

@Frank, You are exactly right! I just meet a woman from Match.com,and she was as sweet as could be, but when I met her,and she was not into me,plus told me that I and other guys did not look like my photos. She was just average looking for 42, but thought she was god`s gift,and got really mad and insulting me when I was not what she expected. 75 percent are controlling whores,10 percent are gold diggers,and 15 percent are good, but will still be talking online with others while dating you… It Sucks, but don`t swap teams…

By: Frank

Frank — Sat, 09 Jul 2011 09:03:34 +0000

Dan – I’m 35 (will be 36 the 20th of July, 2011) and in MY experience, women are heartless, mean and controlling and get pissed when they find out they can’t control YOU, or your not their type and their not attracted to you.

I’m JUST about done with women, and am seriously thinkin of switching teams.

By: dan2

dan2 — Sat, 25 Jun 2011 03:03:44 +0000

Dan i am 18 years old. And my buddy just had a horrible e run in with some chick,so i started ot look up this subject ( which is very sad yet very entertaining to read how women think, because the real sad part asm uch as they dont wanna admit it is true).ill admit everything you are saying is absolutly true. However I have had my hint of bad luck and I to learned that it is not worth it. I dont take shit period but I am still a polite and honest guy who understands certain values. However women my age wont be interested in me for now and i honestly dont care about them.

I guess at the end someone will have to prove themselves to me , because honestly ive done enough ” proving” to last a 100 years and like i said im only 18 and just finished highschool