Thousands of men and women join dating websites every day as the stigma associated with looking for love on the internet is vanishing. Indeed, there are millions of men and women all over the world looking for love on line.
However, like in “real” life, meeting people on the internet requires knowing how to come across to your potential dating partners as a person who is attractive and interesting and not just another face on the dating site with a bunch of self serving adjectives on his page, such as “I am interesting, successful, funny, fit, etc…”
Few people bother to explore and learn what it takes to write a great dating profile that will bring them the kind of responses they would like to have. This is unfortunate because understanding how to write a great dating profile is simple, and it is likely to dramatically improve your chances of finding love on the internet or at least receive messages from and date people of a much higher quality.
One of the most important qualities you must demonstrate in order to have better results at meeting people on line is that you are DIFFERENT from the rest and that you stand out as a more interesting and thus – a more attractive person. You can achieve this by making sure that your dating profile reflects the following elements: 1. Writing a powerful opening; 2. Avoiding bragging and not using cliche, meaningless statements that everybody else uses; and 3. Using details in your profile instead of typical, generic statements.
1. Have a Powerful Opening to Your Profile
Polite introductions are important in many circumstances, but writing a great dating profile is not one of them. You are much better off sparing your readers the pleasantries of “Hello, thanks for stoping by my profile. This is the first time I am doing something like this, etc…” There is NO need for such introductions. Everybody knows why you are there and what you want. Instead, just “dive” right in! Say something interesting, eye catching or even better – brain catching – in the very beginning of your profile, express your opinion on anything that will give your potential dating partners an insight into who you are. You can even start your page with a famous slogan that you like or a funny story about something that happened to your recently. You can start your profile with something like: “I don’t care what you drive and what kind of suit you wear, but I am very interested in what you want to achieve in your life as an individual.”
2. Don’t Brag and Don’t Use Cliche Statements
Make sure that your page is free of “I am independent,” “I am as comfortable in jeans as I am in a dress,” “I like to have fun,” “I am compassionate” and alike statements that men have seen over and over before. These self-descriptions have been used a million times before and they add nothing to your profile, which means that they will not evoke the attention of those few interesting guys that you are looking to meet. Don’t forget that actions speak much, much louder than words, so let the guy find out who you are by getting to know you rather than reading a bunch of adjectives on your page that anybody else could write about themselves.
3. Use the Power of Details
Any writing rich in details has a much greater impact on a reader than a bunch of generic, abstract statements. Specific facts about who you are and what you think and like will compel like-minded people to respond and will make their life easier by allowing them to respond specifically to the things you say and thus show their personality to your in a more compelling fashion.
Thus, you are much better off replacing the typical, boring, “I am intelligent” with something like ”few things excite me more than picking up a great book at a library / book store and spending a few hours reading it while sipping coffee at a quite and cozy shop. After all, would you rather have a reply saying “I am intelligent too” or read something far more interesting in response to your profile, such as: ”It’s funny that you mention reading a book at a cozy shop. Last Friday I did just that and it felt so much better than hanging out at a bar for 4 hours and talking about nothing.”
Instead of saying ”I am active,” say “I can’t help but feel guilty if I sit idle for longer than an hour even when I can.”
Instead of saying “I am educated” say “Consider me crazy, but I really miss school and all the great things I had the opportunity to learn in college.”
I am sure that by now you understand how you can take the typical, boring statements and dress them up with the detail that will make your dating profile so much more interesting to read and so much more tempting to respond to. And make sure you check out examples of bad and good dating profiles to attract women online.
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1:If you’ve ever tried writing an Internet Dating profile, you know how tough it can be if you’ve never done it before. There’s an abundance of advice out there on how to do it. You’ve seen it all! Right?
-”Don’t say. Convey.”
-”Speak from your heart. Be yourself!”
-”Don’t list facts.”
-”Show emotion and use descriptive language in your profile.”
Well, some of the above is good advice and some of it… not so much. It’s gotten so complicated that some guys just give up and look for sample profiles on the Internet to steal. Yet, when they look at these “great” works of art, it’s hard to tell what’s really going on. So they end up copying it word for word and posting it on several dating sites without knowing if it’s really good or not, hoping for the best. So, what happens next??
Nothing!
Nada!
Or they get minimal responses from women who are not quite their type. The success they thought was around the corner never comes. Well, why is that?
It’s because they weren’t showing the world who THEY REALLY ARE. They were putting on false self. It’s like actors and actresses in the movies. They’re playing a part in a movie and often times this character is completely different from who they are in real life.
“But how can she tell who I really am from reading my profile”?
Good question! The answer is that women have a way of figuring out if you’re being genuine or if you’re just trying to be who you think she wants you to be. I’ve seen this happen over and over again!! Guys write up profiles that depict some cool character in a movie, rather than just BEING THEMSELVES. Ok, so how do you get started?
2.Well, first you need a good headline. Something eye-catching and mysterious. I like to use the power of ambiguity in my headlines. Maybe I’ll say something like, “Hey, you’d better stop that right now!”
Now, when a woman sees that headline she’s going to open it right away! Count on it! Women love a good mystery and you know she’ll be dying to know what I mean by that.
3: Now you have to start off your profile by explaining what “that” is in your headline. Say something like, “That’s right. Stop window shopping! You’re about to slip into a coma looking at all these boring profiles. Wake up! You’re about to see the light!”
You see how that works? It’s always fun to tease her about looking at other guys’ profiles. That gets her attention right away. Now, doing this, we started off our profile with some humor. Always good!!
4.Next you need to show your confidence. You do that by using assertive language and showing her just how strong you are and demonstrating that in your writing. This is what they mean by conveying not saying. Convey that you are a confident person!
5.Finally we end the profile with some more humor. Maybe say something like, “So stop reading and start writing. Believe me, you want nothing to do with the guy below me. He still lives in his Parent’s basement!”
So, to recap, we wrote an eye-catching headline using the power of ambiguity. Then we started our write up by using some humor. Next, we conveyed our confidence by using assertive language and finally we finished off with more humor. THAT, my friend is the secret formula.
6. Think about it. What are the two things that women find most attractive in a man? Ask any woman and she’ll tell you it’s his confidence and his personality or sense of humor. So THESE are the two things that must really shine in your profile. Remember, women aren’t like men. All we want to see are some sexy pictures and then we’ll look at her personality. Well, women want to see a sexy personality first!
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