Facials – Why He Wants to Cum On Your Face

facials cumming on faceI have been asked a few times in the past by women about why guys like giving girls facials. These women obviously didn’t like the idea of a guy cumming on their face, and they couldn’t understand why any guy would want to do something so “humiliating” and “degrading” to a girl. For a while I had a really hard time explaining why a guy may want to cum on a girl’s face. After much thinking and talking to quite a few random guys and few of my close male friends, who I consider to be insightful, I have come to a simple conclusion: the obvious reason that a guy would want to cum on a girl’s face is exactly the same reason why he would want to do anything else sexual with her  –  because he is turned on by doing it, and because he finds that specific part of her body to be sexually appealing. Just like a guy wants to look at a girl’s ass and boobs if he considered her to be hot, he would want to penetrate a girl, whose body he finds attractive and desirable, he would want a hand-job and a blowjob from her, because he likes her hands on his penis, and her mouth around it, it’s not different with her face. He finds her face attractive and sexy, and therefore he wants to act on his attraction to her face by looking at it while masturbating and ejaculating on it. For many guys, cumming on a woman’s face is the pinnacle of expression of a man’s sexual attraction to a woman’s face. And, let’s be real – no guy would want to cum on a woman’s face, if he doesn’t find that face at least somewhat attractive.

As a woman, while you certainly shouldn’t force yourself to do or enjoy something you don’t, if it’s the feeling of humiliation that’s the problem, then you should stop perceiving facials as anything like that. On the contrary, the fact that the guy wants to come on your face is a huge compliment to you – it means that he finds you face sexually so attractive that he is aroused by just looking at it. I can’t imagine how the purpose of any guy in wanting to cum on a girl’s face would be humiliating her. Whether he is interested in anything serious with her or not, a facial is not a sign of disrespect. Unless you were unlucky enough to meet one of those few guys out there, who are on a mission to take their frustrations about the world out by trying to humiliating women women by having sex with them and the disappearing right after, the guy wants to cum on your face out of the same desire that he wants to kiss you, eat you out, and have sex with you. But if that’s the case, whether it was a facial or any other kind of sex, it’s not going to change who he is and how he will treat you.

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Eman
Eman
1 month ago

Oh wow- some aggressive comments here. I personally love to cum on a woman’s face, I do it about 75% of the time we have sex. I love to look at her face looking up at me, waiting for my cum and then exploding all over her. It is so sexy to me, I know its not for everyone. My GF says she loves it, I am not sure if she does or does not but she allows me to do it.

Flover
Flover
3 months ago

For many guys there’s nothing more sexualy gratifying then blowing their load all over a beautiful woman’s face.

So when having sex with a guy, why would a woman want to deny him this ultimate pleasure?

Surly with some effort any woman can eventually get used to having semen on her face, and become comfortable with letting her partners cum on her face whenever they desire – as indeed many women do!

Scott Hufford
Scott Hufford
4 years ago

The guys saying they don’t like it are just pissed off their wives won’t do it. Quit lying to yourself and start dumping loads on her face, it’s fun.

practicalh
4 years ago
Reply to  Scott Hufford

I can’t help but mention Howard Stern’s words about Aziz Ansari that show Stern’s deep misunderstanding and ignorance of what men and women want. It’s particularly surprising coming from someone who is supposed to be as forward thinking and as open minded as they come:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZXV18tPIVPE the falsehoods are mostly between 1:20m and 2:40.

Arkhane
Arkhane
3 years ago
Reply to  Scott Hufford

You disgust me, stop thinking every male is as rude as you are.

allessior
allessior
4 years ago

I would much rather cum on a woman’s ass than on any other part of the body. Now that is erotic, fucking doggie style, then pulling out and shooting all over, then rubbing the penis up and down between the ass cheeks. There is no humiliation here, just eroticism, pure and simple.

Bert Thingy
Bert Thingy
4 years ago

I gotta say that doesn’t apply to me at all. Whenever I see cum on a girls face, the girl I’m with or on a porn site, I get turned on by the simple raw domination/submissiveness of it. There is, to be honest, some element of degradation in there also, but mixed up with the rest. Doesn’t matter if she is pretty or ugly. If she’s pretty, the site of cum on her face kind of reuces her to basic womanhood for me. If she is ugly, same thing – reminds me that she is stil a woman I can dominate and potentially fertilise. In fact one of the sexiest porn sets I have is of a pretty ugly mature Japanese woman getting plastered with her man’s cum. The obedience and respect she shows in milking him, receiving his cum and massaging her skin with it is nothing short of beautiful to me. I realise this is going to make a lot of women incandescent, but that’s how I feel.

meandanitoo
4 years ago

This is foolishness and just one more post for people to try and change the way pornography is viewed so that they can make it accepted. Pornography is born of lust. Lust is selfish and always, always seeks it’s own gratification. No man wants to ejaculate on a woman’s face because he finds her attractive…on the contrary, if he had any love or respect for her he would not do anything to mar or disgrace that beauty. It is something that they have seen in pornography, it appeals to their sinful, depraved nature and they want to do it.

If a man asks you to perform some act that is out of the ordinary, causes you pain (anal penetration – gross! The anus is a one-way street, NOTHING is supposed to go in there, ewww!, “deep throat” – listen to former porn stars who injured their throats by doing this) or anything that involves HIS twisted pleasure you can be sure that he has been watching porn and he is beyond the power of intimacy. He’s traded it for lust and you should run like the wind. Pornography always, always, always leads to deeper acts of depravity (Go and look up Ted Bundy’s final interview with Dr. James Dobson – his porn habit began with a magazine and went hardcore and led him right into serial killing as a result) because lust can never satisfy.

ARE YOU HEARING THIS FOOLISHNESS? SPERM IS FOR MAKING BABIES, IT BELONGS IN THE VAGINA. IT IS NOT A MOISTURIZER!!!!I IT IS NOT A FACIAL AND IT IS DISGUSTING NO MATTER HOW MANY NICE SOUNDING WORDS THEY MAKE UP TO DESCRIBE IT. IT IS FILTH UNMENTIONABLE AND THE EPITOME OF DISRESPECT. IT IS NOT A FACIAL IT IS EJACULATING SPERM ON A WOMAN’S FACE AND I ASSURE YOU THAT THE “MAN” WHO DOES IT DOES NOT GIVE A HOOT WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE AS LONG AS HE CAN HAVE HIS PLEASURE AT THE EXPENSE OF YOUR DIGNITY AND SELF RESPECT!!!

Do not believe the hype. These people are likely plants from the industry who are being compensated to tell you these lies, and change your thought processes so that you will accept this disrespectful and gross act as normal and natural. One blog I was on talked about how ejaculating in a woman’s face was about a mans self-acceptance of his body. Since when do men have issues of self-acceptance about their bodies (all they care about is their organ anyway) and how come we’ve never read about this issue in GQ?

If women come to accept this behavior as normal, If women allow themselves to be degraded in this fashion they have opened the floodgates to more and deeper degradation, humiliation and DEBAUCHERY than ever before and men will come to expect it from every woman. I would kill before I allow such a man to turn me into a whorish dog like himself. We don’t need to be trifling because a man is trifling, we need to banish him – and his lustful, disgusting thoughts and behavior from our presence.

powderedtoast
powderedtoast
4 years ago

I agree with the post. However, the discussion of facials always tends to have a huge blind-spot. That is that woman are not the only ones on the receiving end. I think we could learn a lot by considering bisexual and gay men’s views on this as well. As a bisexual man I personally love receiving facials. I share the same feeling as james’ wife, it makes me feel sexy, although I don’t share in her feeling of it making me feel “used”. I also know that it is very common among gay and bisexual men. Just go to any “men seeking men” section of Craigslist and you will see that it is very common for men to seek other men specifically to give them facials. Furthermore, I feel confident in saying that the same rule applies to facials as all other sex acts, it’s all about communication and trust. Naturally a person isn’t going to like a sex act if they feel violated. Sad to say many people haven’t reached a point in their relationships where they can feel open to sexual experimentation because they haven’t figured out their emotional baggage. But once you can open up to your partner and adequately express your mutual needs and desires you’d be surprised what you might end up liking.

alphamale69
alphamale69
4 years ago
Reply to  powderedtoast

fucking gay queer kill yourself

meandanitoo
4 years ago
Reply to  powderedtoast

Of course you don’t share her feeling of being used. You’re a male. It is no secret that promiscuity and all kinds of lewd behavior is rampant in the “gay” community so what would you say?

This has nothing to do with “emotional baggage” it has to do with respect. It has to do with boundaries, something you clearly do not have. How dare you come here and compare yourself and what you’ve experienced to a woman!!!! Bisexual or no your response is typical of…a male.

You are NOT a woman. Just because some of us have boundaries (God-given boundaries) doesn’t mean we have “emotional baggage”. We’re not talking about “sexual experimentation” we’re talking about the depraved lusts of an immoral man who most likely has never thought about doing such a thing until he saw it in some porn flick. But that’s beside the point.

WOMEN DON’T HAVE TO LIKE IT, EXPERIMENT WITH IT, BELIEVE LIES ABOUT IT OR DO ANYTHING ELSE WITH IT BUT RECOGNIZE IT FOR WHAT IT IS AND ACT ACCORDINGLY.

IT. IS. FILTH. FLEE.

Ask all those women who were formerly working in the porn industry how they feel about it. They will tell you that the men who watch them in porn movies send them emails asking the if they can ejaculate on their faces. These trifling “men” aren’t telling them how gorgeous they are and how their lovely face makes them want to ejaculate on it – the author sounds foolish even making such a stupid statement. These males aren’t asking them how they are doing or feeling. These men are driven by nothing but pure unadulterated lust and all they are thinking about is their own selfish gratification and all they are talking about are the explicit fornication acts that they watched these women perform. They are HELL-BENT on their own satisfaction and nothing more. They tell these women how much they enjoyed watching them swallow another man’s sperm and then tell them how much they want to ejaculate in their faces because of it.

They watched these women being humiliated and degraded and they get off on it and then want to take the humiliation and degradation further into more and more debauchery. This all stems from porn. Just look at your own life…I’m sure there’s no limit to the acts you will perform, nothing you won’t try…like being bisexual. How long will that last do you think? How long before you say, bump women and just become…gay? And then what? Pederasty?

Ask the ex porn stars what they feel because guess what…they’ve experienced it, they don’t like it and they have no respect for the men who engage in this gross behavior. Every testimony I read was filled with regret and disgust. Every story was laced with tales of being hit, kicked, punched – one young girl testified that a man STEPPED ON HER HEAD!! They told tales of being called horrilble names…RAPED….some talked of being BRUTALLY sodomized while their hair is being almost ripped out of their skull and when they complain of the pain he male director tells them to suck it up and finish filming or they wont get paid. These are the same men who ejaculate in their faces in porn movies. The directors tell them to do it.Don’t you tell me about pleasure, about “try it you might like it”. I KNOW WHAT I LIKE AND WHAT I DON’T AND I AM NOT ABOUT TO ALLOW A MAN TO USE ME OR HUMILIATE ME FOR HIS OWN SELFISH PLEASURE AT THE EXPENSE OF MY SELF-RESPECT.

Momo
Momo
3 years ago
Reply to  powderedtoast

Again, this dynamic exists because males manufactured a value for semen in their minds. Semen is no more valuable than say, an ovum or cervical fluid or menstrual fluid. It’s simply a carrier base and that’s all. That’s all. It isn’t magical and men ascribing a character and properties to it as if it were ambrosia are making all of that up in their brains. It’s fantasy, pure and simple. It doesn’t actually hold any of those properties. So because males ascribe semen to being so “powerful” and their “essence”, they act in ways that are illogical based on the story they’ve created in their minds. The brain is the body’s biggest and most powerful sex organ. But let’s not be stupid and say that any ridiculous or harmful thing we come up with is permissible. We have people cutting themselves and suffocating themselves who would be thrown in a mental hospital as a danger to themselves or others but if you say you were suffocating or cutting yourself or someone else FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE all of a sudden it’s considered acceptable instead of stark raving mad. We have people driving nails into their scrotums and the fact that we have not locked those people up and had them psychologically evaluated stands to prove that when a man wants an orgasm, he thinks anything is allowable, even torture, maiming, rape and death.

Dogspeed
Dogspeed
4 years ago

The vids explanation is bogus. It’s about dominance & degradation. Just as some girls like the kic men in the nuts, it’s not because she likes his body. Both are the prime example of submission! And some people like this treatment too.

John Johnson
John Johnson
5 years ago

A guy wanting to cum on a girl’s face has absolutely nothing to do with him being attracted to her face. When a guy sees a girl who he finds himself attracted to, he wants to have sex with that girl, but he doesn’t think, “Oh, I want to cum on that girl’s beautiful face.” I think men’s desire to cum on women’s face comes from the fact that a rare, uncommon sexual act, that’s kinky and sort of taboo, and some people associate facials with pornography, at least the ignorant ones who don’t realize that everything that you see in porn are sexual acts that people have experienced for thousands of years. (You really think deep throating started after the 70’s film?) As for the man’s feeling of satisfaction, it comes from having a woman be so attracted to him, like him, and be so into him that she let’s him or better yet wants his cum all over her, including her face. Now there are some men that love giving facials no matter if their partner likes it or just puts up with it, and there are some women absolutely love facials no matter what. It’s like anal sex, some women think they’re doing the man a favor and some women love it. Some women reject it, some women ask for it. (Btw, if a man is willing to stick his penis or finger into the part of your body where poop comes out of to try something new and exciting, and explore new ways of pleasing each other….you’re welcome!) As fat as cum facials being degrading, humiliating, disgusting, gross, a sign of dominance….It can be all of the above. It is what you make it out to be depending on the situation. Some guys want it because to them it’s a sign of dominance and some girls want to feel submissive, some like it because it’s extremely hot and sexual, for some girls it’s a turn on seeing how much they turned the guy on, how hard he comes, and how much cum he shoots out. Would you rather have your guy come on the sheets, on a towel, or just come on the floor? Think about this, how would you feel if a guy is down on you, eating your pussy, and every time you get wet he grabs a towel and dries your wetness and when you get really wet and you’re about to come, he pulls away to avoid your wetness going all over his face? Or do you want him to keep licking until you cum really hard and at the end suck it all out of your pussy and lick your thighs and butt crack clean? Well, guess what, it goes all over his face too, all around his mouth and his chin, and if a guy has facial hair then it gets all in his beard and he had to wash it off. What, it’s okay because women’s cum is clear and men’s cum is white and visible, so, it’s a no-no??? So, why is a cum facial any less degrading, humiliating, and disgusting than anal sex, swallowing, analingus, pulling hair, and spanking? It’s what you make it out to be! It’s really the stigma behind cum facials. It’s just that some women are way too insecure to do something that’s make-believe degrading, and pseudo-humiliating. Facials can be fun, sexy, light-hearted sexual act as something new and exciting to spice up your sex life and strengthen the bond between you and your partner. Don’t make it out to be some disgusting, perverted thing!

practicalh
5 years ago
Reply to  John Johnson

I very much agree with almost everything except the first sentence. Wanting to cum on a girl’s face has a lot to do with being attracted to her. Just ask yourself – would you want to cum on an ugly face? I doubt it.

John Johnson
John Johnson
5 years ago
Reply to  practicalh

Well, I would not want to cum on an ugly face, however, I would also not want to be doing anything sexual with an “ugly face.” So, a girl can be average looking and look cute and I’d still want to cum on her face. She doesn’t have to have a face of a supermodel. My point was that cuming on a girl’s face is like a psychological turn on, the part that is a turn is the thought of it not so much what the girl’s face looks like.

practicalh
5 years ago
Reply to  John Johnson

Of course, she doesn’t need to be a super model, but there has to be something about her face and who she is that’s attractive and appealing *to you* enough to want to cum on her face.

John Johnson
John Johnson
5 years ago
Reply to  practicalh

OK, agree to disagree 🙂

Momo
Momo
3 years ago
Reply to  practicalh

Ejaculating on anyone’s face is utterly ridiculous and I guarantee you first saw it in a porno and adopted it as something you thought you were supposed to do and therefore enjoy. EVEN THOUGH IT IS POINTLESS.

JosephineBakerStreet
JosephineBakerStreet
3 years ago
Reply to  Momo

You’re a moron, Momo. You think cumming on someone’s face started with porn? What a moron. I am a woman and don’t need you telling me how to express myself sexually, you insecure jackass girl. Do you give this same lecture to men and women who perform oral sex on women? You have no idea about sexuality except for some college sociology class you’ve taken. And you are prejudice pig for equating semen with snot. I bet when you walk in a room, it reeks of fish.

practicalh
3 years ago

I very much agree with your response, but please do not resort to insults as they are not productive and don’t contribute to discourse.

Momo
Momo
3 years ago

So you’re going to tell me that the consistency of semen is NOTHING like snot or mucus (which you can test for yourself, easily) but then say that somehow my vagina (a self cleansing organ) smells somehow bad because of my opinions. Because opinions make vaginas smell bad. That sounds very backward for today’s age, to believe that. In fact it isn’t even physiologically possible for a thought to affect the smell of any part of your body. I am enjoying how you’ve been judging me according to a pic of someone I found on the internet, too. That’s not me but thanks for judging my looks based on whatever I presented to you. My pic used to be Norman Reedus. 😛 And fish isn’t a bad smell compared to the smell of semen. 🙂

Momo
Momo
3 years ago
Reply to  practicalh

I presented my husband your theory and he thought it was bizarre and didn’t make sense. If I saw a sexy guy I wouldn’t want to smear my urine, feces, menstrual blood or any other product from my body on his face. That would be ridiculous, serve no purpose whatsoever, and be insulting to him. He is a separate human, not a “thing” to mark, claim or brand. Men see women as objects they can manipulate instead of other human beings. If you don’t like warm snot running down your face and into your eyes, then it’s likely no one else would, either. The fact that there’s some sperm present in the fluid really makes no difference. Sperm are no more important than ovum but we don’t have a senseless need to cover men with those. Men have been taught all of this, it’s all conditioning and their true sexuality has been destroyed and replaced with this manufactured stuff that serves to enrich the porn industry.

JosephineBakerStreet
JosephineBakerStreet
3 years ago
Reply to  Momo

You posted somewhere else on here that people do not post their face on the internet, a ridiculous comment. But it does not surprise me that your mother had a cesarean because what woman would want to give vaginal birth to such a disgusting waste of sperm like you? If ever a reason for a cum facial existed, it was during the union that produced you. Not sure if you’re a bot or just a bore in bed. If you’re a real woman, fucking you must be like fucking a dead fish.

meandanitoo
4 years ago
Reply to  John Johnson

People are not ignorant. It is one thing to perform these acts in private, behind closed doors where no one can see it, it is quite another to put it on television, make a movie out of it, spread it all over the internet. People who never thought to do such things now have them in their minds and want to do them! Pornography did more than just popularize it and make it the norm – it introduced things into the mind that were not previously there before. Don’t believe me? Just go back 50 years and see what people were doing, what they were watching. Follow it and see how it began with one small step..that shocked people at first…then repetition numbed them….and then they simply accepted what was before unacceptable. Pornography was given to us gradually and in different forms….it happened over generations…like music….Men are no longer crooning about love, no longer are they courting women, they are using graphic and explicit language and singing songs of LUST…. just like now they are setting the state in movies to desensitize us to pedophilia and pederasty and make us think it’s normal to molest a child. We’re already halfway there.

You all can give it a nice sounding name if you want to but it is about degradation and humiliation. Sperm belongs in the vagina where it can make babies. It is not a mud pack or a cleansing cream
it is NOT a facial and has no place on a woman’s face at all.

Momo
Momo
3 years ago
Reply to  John Johnson

A man should cum into a toilet because that’s where semen belongs. It’s like snot from your dick. It’s absolutely vile slime. Men watch way too much porn and have their little brains conditioned to want and need this kind of pointless shit like ejaculating here there and everyfuckingwhere. They got you by the balls and you just keep going along with whatever they want you to feel. POrn companies hijacked your whole sexuality and reduced it to you basically dick snotting in every direction and thinking it’s grand when it’s really just putrid crap and no one actually likes it. No one on earth ever ate that shit and said, “Wow, that’s delish!” You can condition yourself to enjoy anything and people condition themselves to like this swill because it serves their partner (not themselves.) It’s pointless. This whole bit about oh men want to ejaculate on your face because he likes your face is such a lie. Your face is your identity, you tool. Obviously covering it with anything is marring and distorting your identity and therefore your SELF. Men do this as a form of degradation because they can not perform sex in equal partnerships. They have to destroy to enjoy things in life.

Cody Vinten
Cody Vinten
3 years ago
Reply to  Momo

I feel like this is a classic case of an idividual not willing to accept that there are all different kinds of people with different turn ons in the world.
My personal experience tells me that yes most people (pronoun chosen very specifically because of the obvious beliefs that all women are victims and all men are predators) do have an understandable aversion to having cum on their faces but you do get the minority who really enjoy it, of the 8 people I’ve been in serious/short term relationships with 5 of them hated it so we never did it, 2 of them told me they loved it and went out of their way to get semen on them (despite my insistence that it wasn’t necessary) and 1 who could give less of a damn if it went on the sheets on their face or in the back lawn.
I think the comment about sex being about more than one person is 100% spot on, it is important to be attentive and considerate of the feelings and needs of your partner but at the end of the day who are we to judge what 2 consenting people do in private behind closed doors.
Does anybody (short of pedophiles) really deserve to feel wrong about the desires/hang up that they can’t control, if slut shaming is wrong then why should a man who likes to give facials or a woman who likes receiving them be made to feel shame?

Momo
Momo
3 years ago
Reply to  John Johnson

One needs to ask why deep throating is something they would want their partner to do when it can damage their body. Why would you want to hurt or damage the person you’re having sex with? Reducing your gag reflex isn’t natural or normal. Shoving things into your throat isn’t healthy or natural. The esophagus is for digestion and the lining is delicate. Biology seems to mean very little to a horny man. He does not seem to give a care at all about the other person that he is essentially gagging and suffocating.

“for some girls it’s a turn on seeing how much they turned the guy on, how hard he comes, and how much cum he shoots out”

So the female reward in sex is knowing a man orgasmed. Yay. I can tell you this, pretty much anything can turn a man on. A woman doesn’t have to be pretty to turn a man on. She doesn’t have to be thin or cute or even ALIVE. Men have been known to have sex with dead women, living and dead men, living and dead animals, patio tables and cars (Google it), food and pretty much anything they see. Women try way too hard to “turn men on” when men are perpetually turned on. Some are turned on by kids, even. There’s just no limit to what men have wanted to have sex with on this Earth. And how much semen you produce is irrelevant. It’s again like DeBeers telling you that the rock on her finger is directly equal to the amount of “love” you feel for her. (So better spend spend spend!) Someone sold you a load of crap.

Male orgasms are proven to also be less strong and lasting than female orgasms, but you don’t see women ever talking about “how hard they cum”. Believe me, no orgasm a man can experience can rival a female’s orgasm. And females can have multiple ones, too. So it just isn’t honestly all that interesting how “hard” he orgasms because the ejaculation is just pathetic looking. It looks like a dick throwing up or sneezing and those last few contractions are very dribbly and sad. And messy. And smelly. The whole event is really not interesting to watch at all. I have oft wondered why that’s considered the money shot in porn since most purveyors of porn are men (I’ve read that porn is created with a man’s mind in mind) and why they like watching other guy’s dicks ejaculating. Seems gay to me. Porn seems sometimes an excuse by a male to watch another male and the woman is present as a smokescreen. If you’re gay just admit it FFS. There’s no reason to enjoy watching another guy ejaculating and getting off on it and if you can do that, you have to come to terms with things in your sexuality that you’ve been avoiding.

Analingus, though it may have been practiced by fools thru the ages, isn’t sanitary or healthy. Fecal coliform bacteria actually live around the anus and skin surrounding. Feces is a waste product and contains e. coli and other very harmful bacteria that can make a person violently ill. Willingly ingesting fecal matter is counterproductive to a human being’s health and welfare and is therefore not evolutionarily sound for self preservation.

Anal sex is also not biologically supported because peristalsis moves in one direction, the digestive system is not part of the reproductive system, the tissues of the digestive tract are delicate and can perforate (causing sepsis and death), you can get hemorrhoids and fissures, and tears which expose you to infection. People say oh but it feels good. Well I wonder how good it will feel when your rectum prolapses, your hemorrhoids strangulate and you’re fecally incontinent. Also the lining of the intestine can absorb things much faster than the stomach and anything inserted into the rectum has more of a chance of having an increased effect, such as suppositories given to stop epileptic seizures. People (men) have been killed because they took alcohol enemas, thinking they could get drunk faster. Little did they understand about their biology and they died of alcohol poisoning.

But hey I guess you all think it’s worth it to sacrifice your health and well being for an orgasm. Because that’s logical. (NOT.)

Science and logic just are not on your side.

Oh yeah, semen starts out clear before boys go through puberty. But you knew that, right?

“It’s just that some women are way too insecure to do something that’s make-believe degrading, and pseudo-humiliating”

Sure, make it about women simply not wanting smelly snot on their faces instead of realizing the problem is YOU wanting someone else to experience that solely for your selfish pleasures that have been manufactured and taught to you. You value your semen in a way that you’ve been taught to. Your semen isn’t inherently any more interesting or valuable than anything else, but you believe it is. It’s all in your head. Talk about make-believe. You balk at the fact that a female would say it is degrading but in the same breath insist that your arbitrary and completely made-up reasons for even doing it in the first place somehow hold validity. You wouldn’t want to ejaculate on another person unless you thought that your semen somehow was important or special. It wouldn’t “turn you on” if you didn’t have a pre-conceived notion about what semen represents or what you want it to represent. All of which happen in your mind only. Make believe.

But oh, if a person finds semen smelly and of a gross consistency (like mucus, which I’m sure most of us don’t enjoy smearing all over our faces when we have a cold) that’s somehow wrong of them and they should be taught/conditioned/schooled on how to ENJOY it. Because if I walk up to you and say, hey I want to smear my shit on your face, you down with that? and you say “Fuck no way” I’ll just say “But *I* want to do it. And because *I* want to and *I* get something out of it that I made up in my mind, *you* should *want* to let me. And then feel rewarded because you made me happy.”

And then go wash my shit off your face, feeling um, happy about it? This scenario makes no sense whatsoever. Even if I shit rainbows there’s no reason for me to tell another person that they are in any way wrong to not like my rainbow shit on their face, in their mouth, up their nose or in their eyes simply because it brings ME pleasure.

The epitome of selfishness. Sex isn’t about ONE person. It’s about more than ONE person. Otherwise it’s masturbation. And if you want to come in your own face and snorfle it down then be my guest. It’s your semen, you should be the one getting the facial.

Fantasy Maker
Fantasy Maker
5 years ago

I love giving huge, warm pov facials to women

Momo
Momo
3 years ago
Reply to  Fantasy Maker

And they would love making you rub their menstrual blood all over your face and into your eyes. So sexy. I’m sure you’d be down for that especially in a scenario where you don’t get to have an orgasm because it’s all about the woman’s pleasure and what turns HER on. The amount of snot your dick produces doesn’t actually mean anything. I really hope you understand that.

Fantasy Maker
Fantasy Maker
3 years ago
Reply to  Momo

You sound like a lot of fun in bed

Corbin
Corbin
3 years ago
Reply to  Fantasy Maker

Go back up the page and read her man hating nonsense. She drones on and on, as though she had a clue about men, but it just boils down to pure feminist man hater. She says she has a husband, and he has my utmost sympathy.

Fantasy Maker
Fantasy Maker
3 years ago
Reply to  Corbin

I was being facetious – we all know she is an insecure, self absorbed lunatic

james
james
5 years ago

my wife loves it when I cum on her face or breasts, she says it makes her feel sexy and used (that’s her fantasy) Past girlfriends have requested that I do the same to them.I am a lucky guy.

practicalh
5 years ago
Reply to  james

That’s the right / healthy response. I am sure we, men, all wish more women took it this way. Of course, a woman sometimes can’t help how she feels about something like this, but you are indeed lucky that way.

Momo
Momo
3 years ago
Reply to  practicalh

I’d like guys to cum into the toilet where their dick snot belongs. Imagine sucking the nose of someone with the flu and eating their chunky snot and rubbing it all over your face and then telling them how delicious it is and how it makes you feel sexy. Yep. That’s basically the same damn thing. Semen is just slime and it smells vile. Men are so deluded into thinking their reproductive parts are in any way attractive or look/taste good. Most men can’t even clean their asses properly (skidmarks, anyone?) much less present something that looks like a scrotum without utter shame. That thing is a dainty flesh purse offering no protection whatsoever. Kick it and the man goes to his knees and cries. It’s man’s off-switch. They’re taught to be so proud of that wrinkled bag, though. Go guzzle period blood and rub that all over your face to feel sexy, guys. I’m sure your woman will appreciate how much you adore her by showing her you love what comes out of her just as you expect her to do the same for you.

JosephineBakerStreet
JosephineBakerStreet
3 years ago
Reply to  Momo

Did you pose with your face to the side because of that Joker chin? It’s a shame you hate facials because that thing makes for good landings. You’ve got a terrible face. Too bad that’s your identity, as some moron said. Oh, wait…you’re the moron that said that. Right. Damn, what an ugly ID.

Corbin
Corbin
3 years ago
Reply to  Momo

I am sure your poor, long suffering husband loves your feelings of disgust and revulsion over men in general, and the male sex drive in particular. Make sure you copy and print the poison you’ve poured out on this page, so one day, when he’s had enough of your disgust and leaves you for a woman who actually likes men, THEN you can re-read your spew and maybe understand why he left for cigarettes and never came home.

CAl Gond
CAl Gond
5 years ago

For territory marks

Jake
Jake
5 years ago

Guys want to cum on a girls face, because she lives the rest of her life exposing her face to the world, and she’ll forever have had that man’s cum on her face, or in her mouth, even when she’s kissing her kids or doing a presentation at work.

Momo
Momo
3 years ago
Reply to  Jake

Which means nothing because you have a ridiculous view of your semen. It’s not ambrosia, you know. It’s just dick snot. It’s not special or anything. It stinks to high heaven and is the consistency of snot. Seriously, what’s there to be proud of? NOTHING. Even the damn flesh baggie that holds your nuts is hideous. And the penis is just a lame flappy little deflated marshmallow that needs blood to stand up. It can’t do anything on its own. It just hangs there all lame and sad and small, dangling and bobbing around when you walk or run. Pathetic. And the fact that you are so brainwashed into thinking your little skin tag is soooo powerful is hilarious. You can’t even live without an X chromosome. Your little putrid dick snot is worthless garbage. You really sound like a deluded fool. It’s amazing that a cunt gave you life.

practicalh
3 years ago
Reply to  Momo

With this type of disgust for male semen, one must wonder why you would even want to be intimate with a man.

JosephineBakerStreet
JosephineBakerStreet
3 years ago
Reply to  Momo

It’s amazing that your mother didn’t abort you. I bet you made her smell like a fish factory. By the way, you know you’re part “dick snot”, right ?

Momo
Momo
3 years ago

The sperm is not the same as the carrier fluid which comprises the actual snot part of semen, which is what men like putting in women’s eyes and watching them gag and choke on. And again, you show great ignorance in understanding that a vagina is a self cleansing organ. And I was born by Cesarean section, actually. I bet you don’t even know what that is.

Momo
Momo
3 years ago
Reply to  Jake

And no matter what you ever do you will have to live with the fact that you were born of a woman, started out female in her womb, need an X chromosome, your life depended on whether or not she chose to gestate you (Literally your very life depended on a woman), you have mammary glands in your breasts and can produce milk, and have nipples because hello, you started out as a female. Every day when you kiss your kids or give a presentation at work or make dinner or watch sports you will always know that your entire self exists because of the mercy of a woman and you will forever bear her marks inside and out. Your very chromosomes have branded you.

JosephineBakerStreet
JosephineBakerStreet
3 years ago
Reply to  Momo

Does this apply to men cumming on men? How does your BS theory work in that scenario, you big chin bitch?

Momo
Momo
3 years ago

You think that’s a picture of me? I found it on the Manic Panic website. LOL That’s not me at all. But I love the fact that you are so gullible you literally think that’s me. If I were as stupid as you, I’d think you were a subway sign. ROFLMAO. Gullible fool.

Rue
Rue
6 years ago

Oh please. What you didn’t write, but was so clear in the fact that you couldn’t come up with any reason (not even the crappy ‘we want you to accept all of us because we are so self conscious about our penises’ one) is that you like marking these girls. That’s what it’s about. The other examples you used, such as a hand job or a blow job, are pleasurable. That’s why you like them. Cumming inside a vagina is always going to feel better than on a face so your logic clearly flops. Facials are meant an act of loving respect. They are degrading.

practicalh
6 years ago
Reply to  Rue

This has nothing to do with marking any girl. I am not even sure what “marking” means. It’s not like marking a girl makes her a guy’s property. There is no shame in liking things that are pleasurable and consensual. I think most guys would agree that cumming inside a vagina is on the top of their list, but this is not about comparing what’s better or what’s worse. It’s an additional/different aspect of sexual pleasure and satisfaction. Maybe for some guys facializing a girl is meant to be degrading, but there are plenty of guys for whom it’s not. In fact, for many guys to be able to do this – they have to feel comfortable enough with the woman and actually like her enough.

Rue
Rue
6 years ago
Reply to  practicalh

I’m not going to address most of what is essentially a non reply. First off, of course marking a girl doesn’t actually make her your property. The same as me putting on wings doesn’t make me a fairy. It’s about the fantasy. And such a base one too. Not that there is anything wrong with that. We are animals after all. And I’m all for doing sexy things that feel good, as long as they’re consensual. As someone who indulges, with unabashed enthusiasm, in kink you will not find disagreement there. But because of this love of kink, this love of indulging in the ‘weird’, I have spent a lot of time examining the ‘whys’ behind certain sexual activity. Kinksters generally do because it matters even more to us. When you are a feminist and a submissive all at one you spend a lot of time questioning. All I want is honesty. Let’s just be honest about why we do things, why we like things, why certain things turn us on. It’s a lot simpler and a lot more people will be happy.

50 years ago 1 in 2 sexual encounters didn’t end with “can I come on your face?”. What worries me is where this rise comes from. Porn. And that worries me because porn is hideously male-centric. It invariably portrays men in the dominant role controlling all of the action. It portrays women as submissive and there solely to please the male actor, and thus the male viewer. It marginalises female pleasure and glorifies the male orgasm to the point where a woman should apparently be proud to wear it, without ever mentioning the female orgasm (cunnalingus rarely lasts more than 30 seconds compared to the 20 minutes to fallatio!). That’s why many men on one night stands think it’s appropriate to refuse to go down on a girl but will think it’s okay to say ‘can I come on your face?’. Logic fail much? My point is, like as not, porn is powerful in breeding the whole ideas about sex and these are bring carried through into the real world. It’s also pervasive and too easily accessible. Many people have their first experiences of sex this way these days.

And why not, for a second, examine the fact that the same action when performed by a woman (squirting on a man’s face) is called Fem Dom? It is portrayed as humiliating and degrading. So why not the same when it’s a man doing it?

I’ve actually realised, upon reading some of your other posts, that I’m wasting time and brain power.

“Ten Mistakes Women Make in Bed That Push Men Away (Guest Posting)”

Are you serious? And number 1 is to try to pressure women into having sex that they clearly don’t want to have. Personally, if he doesn’t call me back because for whatever reason I ended up feeling uncomfortable with the idea of having sex, even after taking off all my clothes, then I’ve dodged a great big fucking bullet. It shows he was only interested in one thing, and if he is he can go and find it somewhere else. I’ve had this encounter, and they’ve called me again. Because they weren’t just interested in my lady bits, just like I wasn’t just interested in their gentleman bits.

The rest of the list is the same bullshit, trying to pressure women into having sex that they don’t want to have, or shaming women for stupid and superficial things. I’d really like to know how often it is too that the guy is the one left hanging….

Ps. Number 6? How fucking stupid. It is one thing not to mock someone’s fetishes, I agree it would be nice if people didn’t do this. It’s another to have to be grateful that someone is pushing their fetishes on you. If we were having sexy, kinky times and I confessed a deep love of pegging….should you then have to not only partake but have to be grateful as I slide my giant black strap on up your ass? Should you have to be grateful that, I’m your own words, “I wanted to do that for YOU”?

practicalh
6 years ago
Reply to  Rue

The effects of porn on men’s behavior and the way they treat women is an important topic, but that goes far beyond the scope of this article. Maybe that’s something I could address in the future. The reason porn is so male centric is because men obviously enjoy and need porn more. Now, there is a rise in female porn – a more gentle porn with more attractive people, softer sexual acts, romantic settings, etc (i.e. Dane Jones, Passion HD, etc.).

It’s true that many guys don’t go down on women. I think the real reason is because they don’t really enjoy it and they only do it if they want a bj in return. I would think that other guys, like myself, don’t care for a woman to reciprocate. Going down on a woman pleases me very much on its own.
Cumming on a woman’s face is hardly kinky.
With regard to the “10 reasons” article – the fact that the reasons make you angry and that you disagree with them, doesn’t change the reality – that these reasons exist. Just look at all the comments from guys who seem to be very well relate. Whether the reasons are fair or unfair is a different issue entirely. And your defensive/offensive tyrade does not change that. With regard to the latter part – I am quite fascinating by the american style of communication. Why are people so overly polite and courteous with each other in person (i.e. after you, take your time, please, how are you?). Yet they spill so much hate in their blog and Youtube comments. I am not necessarily talking about you. You are mild in comparison to others, at least based on your comments so far. Is the reason people are so harsh when they are behind the screen precisely that – that they have to suppress their real feelings in their daily lives, since it’s not appropriate to be real in face to face interaction all that often (probably in California more so than in other places.

Rue
Rue
6 years ago
Reply to  practicalh

Again, you have failed to address most of what I actually said. That doesn’t surprise me.

1. Porn is not ‘needed’ by anyone. To say men need porn is nonsensical. Men need food, water and air. I will however agree that it is enjoyed more by them…because it is made by them for them. However, the number of women consuming porn is rising and rising, and would be higher if the industry realised that their target audience could be much, much larger. I don’t know what ‘female porn’ is, but if you think that the opposite of male-centric porn is gentleness and soft lighting then you don’t know female desires. I and many other women love Bound Gangbangs, there is nothing soft or gentle about wgat Princess Donna does there. What female viewers would prefer is to see the male actor more often, to hear him more often (less of the obviously fake squeaking, please) and more REAL female pleasure. Female pressure is as visible as a hard on, that would be more convincing that the squeaking.

2. Women don’t particularly enjoy stuffing their mouths full of cock either but male pleasure is soooooo important that we are expected to do it and do it like a pornstar AND enjoy it! I didn’t say it was necessarily kinky. I said it was about humiliation, degradation, control and power. Nothing wrong with that, totally kinky when consensual, abuse when not. Let’s just be honest about it.

3. Ummm….6 comments total. Three of them you. So well done. You know 3 other sexist idiots. If you’d know 100 000 it would have proven nothing except the fact that we have a problem with the way women are viewed. Despite it being 2016. And we do. I wonder, do you possibly have a correlating list of things men do that kill our lady boners and stop us coming back for more? Maybe I’m being unfair. There is indeed a lot of petty and hateful stuff on here about women but perhaps you are an equal opportunities bigot and I’ve just missed all the misandristic stuff. I’m pretty mild mannered mostly. I kid, I’m really not. But I’ll speak to you the same way face to face or here. No point saying something that you don’t believe with conviction. That’s cowardly.

practicalhappiness (
8 years ago

I am glad to hear this, and that's exactly how we guys, see this. Now, I can't help but wonder – are there any guys out there who don't like cumming on a girl's face? And if so, what does it say about them?

maria-e
maria-e
8 years ago

This must be the boldest article on this site or any other dating site. I think whether a girl likes it or not when a guy cums on her face says a lot about her sexuality and her ability to be in touch with herself and her ability to open up and submit to a guy she likes and wants to be with. If a guy, who likes me, and who I really like, wants to come on my face – I am delighted. The more, the merrier. 😉 The more of him I get on my face, the more I know he wants me. Is there a bigger compliment, at least sexually?

Tiffany New
Tiffany New
6 years ago
Reply to  maria-e

As a woman, this is completely humiliating to me. I’ve had it done and was mortified. It didn’t make me feel like he liked me at all and it ruined our sex life. I couldn’t stand to look at h after what he had done and broke up with him.

katie saidthings
katie saidthings
6 years ago
Reply to  Tiffany New

what… why. that’s the silliest thing in the world. If you have a healthy relationship with someone, why wouldn’t you want to please them sexually?… let em cum on your face, in your mouth wherever it’s just cum! And if a little bit of cum is a bigger deal to you than a relationship(based on how you responded it was)…well… who’s got the issue.

I for one would be grateful he’s not into piss play and get on with my day.

Arkhane
Arkhane
5 years ago

WHat?!

What you said is the silliest thing in the world, why would she accept everything from a man? So if her boyfriend wants to do anal she has to let him do it?
Damn, I’m a dude, I find all this stuff about ejaculating on the body or the face humiliating and I blame porn for this kind of “wishes” from men.
It might be funny if accidentaly the cum goes on either one’s face or body, we laugh, we wipe it off, it’s ok.
But doing it on purpose?!

And practicalh saying it’s a compliment, have he or she ever watched porn?

If the man does it without warning her, sorry but it’s not acceptable.

practicalh
5 years ago
Reply to  Arkhane

Wanting to cum on a woman’s body or face is perfectly natural and that’s why so many guys want to do it, whether with or without porn. Of course, this has to be consensual and if the woman doesn’t want it, then the guy has to decide how big of a deal it is to him.

justin wittims
justin wittims
4 years ago
Reply to  practicalh

Is this guy for real? Perfectly natural? Pretty sure cumming inside the girl is natural, everything else is debatable at best.
There are varying levels of healthiness to this act, but I’ll say that you have to really trust the person and each side has to be knowing what is going on and why, and be on the same page. I used to do this to girls, and it was definitely a dominance, ownership thing, and I got a huge huge rush from it. The person above who referenced porn is totally right, The guys in porn are in complete control and are basically commanding the females to their sexual whims. This has definitely had an impact on the male general population’s psyche as it pertains to how they perceive themselves regarding sex, their own masculinity, and their relationship sexually with the other gender. To put it in short, it can and is used as an act of sexual aggression, and if the female is unaware of this or is being coaxed into thinking cumming on her face is the new blowjob, or that it indicates acceptance, she COULD be completely missing the boat. Guys like to live out fantasies of themselves, trust me, i know. I struck out quite a bit with a lot of the crushes in my life, despite being regarded as physically attractive. My “game” was pretty weak. Those failures led me to “use” some of the girls I didn’t have as strong feelings for to validate my masculinity and my abilities with females. Sure people use each other for sex all the time, but it doesn’t make it ok. The act of cumming on a girl’s face is quite a bit more straight forward in it’s self-titillating pleasure. But I’m not saying there isn’t a place for it in a healthy sexual relationship, I just wonder if most guys are ever really honest about why they want to do it, including when they are asked. Do they even know why themselves?

Graziela Santos
Graziela Santos
4 years ago
Reply to  justin wittims

Totally agree with your response. What if women start to demand similar stuff from their partners? Because as you said, porn is all about male dominance and rarely about the women’s pleasure too. How would men feel if it was the woman only getting all the buz and leaving the man on the side?

practicalh
4 years ago

Why do we have to choose and why can’t porn be fun and useful to both sexes? I believe that most guys wouldn’t mind at all if the woman they are with would have join them and considered enjoying porn as well. From personal experience I know it can be quite fun.

Graziela Santos
Graziela Santos
4 years ago
Reply to  practicalh

I think it can be fun and used for both sexes. Why not? And choose what? But misogynistic sex is not enjoyed by the vast majority of women. Unless the woman is into sadomasochism she will not enjoy to be slapped. Nothing against who enjoy SM. How about a porn that is equally satisfying for both parties? One that teachs both to please the other?

Momo
Momo
3 years ago
Reply to  practicalh

So you wouldn’t mind if your girlfriend wanted you to watch romantic, mutually satisfying porn where couples are both engaged and involved. Yeah I thought so. When you said porn I’m SURE you only thought of the kind of porn YOU liked. THAT is the problem right there.

practicalh
3 years ago
Reply to  Momo

Not at all. Ideally, a couple should watch the type of porn that inspires and turns on both of them.

Momo
Momo
3 years ago
Reply to  justin wittims

They do it because porn told them it’s hot and they’ve been conditioned to believe this. Once you believe it, your body will respond. It’s classical conditioning in its basic form. Monkey see, monkey do. You would be appalled to know of the things males have done when it comes to sex. It ranges from illegal to idiotic to lethal. One man tried to hook a dead hog up to electricity so he could have sex with it (guess he wanted some extra “zap”) and he electrocuted himself and died. It really doesn’t get dumber than that, but these stories are endless. Men simply have no ability to stop and think and be logical. Look at all the men here trying so desperately to defend this ejaculating stuff. They’re all just so desperate because they want to destroy, humiliate and dominate and they sure don’t want you know, respect for another human getting in the way of their fun. The epitome of selfishness. It has destroyed sex and bastardized it.

practicalh
3 years ago
Reply to  Momo

It may apply to some situations, but it doesn’t apply to many others. Remember – many of the porn scripts are inspires by people’s fantasies and desires and not the other way around.

Momo
Momo
3 years ago
Reply to  practicalh

Nope. You saw it in porn and that’s why you want it. Simple fact. You are mimicking what you see, that’s all. There’s absolutely nothing inherently pleasurable about it at all. The stuff is slime, after all. And it smells REALLY BAD.

Graziela Santos
Graziela Santos
4 years ago
Reply to  Arkhane

You are right. Please men out there, tell me, if you had never seem it on porn, would the idea of cumming on faces, be a deep desire of yours? As a woman i find it gross and before anyone comes with the confidence speech, i can guarantee i am a very open mind that woman. The porn i watched, porn is very off putting to me, is all about the men. No pleasing sex for the woman. It is all about boob slapping, vulva spitting, face and mouth cumming. No foreplay. The men barely touch the women or give them any pleasure. Nothing more off putting than a guy who sits around with a hard pennis waiting to be pleased. And the guy is not even bothered to stimulate the woman so she has to do that herself.

h k
h k
4 years ago

There is female-centered porn with a good deal of kissing, fondling, foreplay around – you just have to seek it out.

Graziela Santos
Graziela Santos
4 years ago
Reply to  h k

You said exactly what the problem is “female-centred porn”. Shouldn’t all porn be about two way pleasing, healthy and enjoyable for both parties? Or is there sex for women and sex for men? ” Male-centred porn” is appalling to women’s sexuality and unfortunately a lot of men are just falling for it. In turn, men into this kind of show are becoming really bad lovers to the real life women that they come in contact with.

Momo
Momo
3 years ago

THIS. Men have destroyed sex and have been defining sex and sexual pleasure for other people from the beginning of time. Women don’t even know what they like because they’re taught to get off on the man’s getting off. That’s our big fat reward. Despite the fact that female orgasms are superior to males’ orgasms, they are stronger and last longer and we can have multiple ones. We are clearly the superior gender yet men have deluded themselves into thinking the antics they do in sex are somehow good. They all fail at it. They can hardly even keep their own asses clean (skidmarks) and think themselves great lovers? They’re slaves to porn and porn owns their minds and bodies. They really ARE “falling for it” like utter fools. Never have they ever been discerning or logical at all about sex. They don’t even CARE that they are terrible at sex.

Momo
Momo
3 years ago
Reply to  h k

So you’re trying to say that sex itself for a man has to be hateful and violent and destructive and never takes into account that another person is even present or involved. So sex for a man is basically masturbating with a warm body present instead of his own hand. Sociopath.

h k
h k
3 years ago
Reply to  Momo

Well uh not sure how you can extrapolate “sociopath” exactly. As a woman doesn’t find it at all violent, hateful or destructive and has a very loving and attentive partner, thank you for your presumptive comment.

Momo
Momo
3 years ago
Reply to  h k

Do you not understand what I’m saying at all about classical conditioning? There’s nothing biological about the desire to put snot all over your partner’s face. There’s no reproductive benefit to it and biologically it is against what your reproductive organs are even for. Do you really think that “women like it” because they just woke up one day and thought, “Wow, I’d like some of that smelly slime on my face and in my eyes, whee!” Women are conditioned to believe that what men want is what they should want and what pleases men is their reward. So they condition themselves to “like” it when there is no point to it and they don’t want it at all. Because there is no point to it. It is illogical. Some guy came up with it and spread it around and other guys went along with it. Then they introduced it to women. Women don’t like having snot in their eyes. Would YOU?

practicalh
3 years ago
Reply to  Momo

I don’t think you can or should be able to relate to the men’s desire to cum on a face of a woman they are very attracted to sexually, just like men cannot relate to many of women’s desires and preferences. A woman who is crazy about a guy derives great joy from pleasing him in all kinds of ways, including handjobs, blowjobs, and being cummed on. Her passion will far surpass the snot concern. She knows that the reason he wants to come on her face is because it turns him on. She and her face turn him on. This is not about humiliation or disrespect or anything like that, but maybe a degree of domination. Surely not all men like cumming on women’s faces and not all women like being cummed on. An of course, the ones that who like to be cummed on, only want it from the guy who is special to them and not just anyone. There is no harm or shame in this type of sexual play and domination. When a guy asks a woman to sit on his face, it’s far more common, but not that different. Also, we can’t expect biology and evolution to explain everything. Some things come to personal preferences and desires. Whether these desires are a result of cultural or social condition or they are part of our personality doesn’t really change that they are there.

practicalh
3 years ago
Reply to  Momo

That’s has never been either stated or implied.

Momo
Momo
3 years ago
Reply to  practicalh

“female-centered porn with a good deal of kissing, fondling, foreplay around – you just have to seek it out.” Implication here is that male centered porn includes the opposite.

Momo
Momo
3 years ago
Reply to  Arkhane

Yep all of this comes from porn. Because literally males watch movies and then want to act out what they see, whether it’s reasonable, logical, legal, healthy, or smart. None of that matters, they just have this compulsion to act it all out. They don’t understand that a fantasy is not meant to be lived, hence it is called a fantasy. This is why we had people jumping off roofs after they saw Superman and we have stupid warnings on stuff. Men simply are stupid that way, like dogs. They can not or will not use their brains to discern anything when their dick is involved. They do not understand or accept that another human is involved when it comes to sex and it’s not just THEM and what THEY want. Porn makes you believe that females like stuff they don’t actually like. Those women are PAID to do that shit. That doesn’t mean women outside of porn will or should want to do any of that crap you watch. A lot of it is unnatural, degrading, hostile, aggressive, domineering, hateful, angry, and harmful and you want to then do that to another person just for your orgasm? Amazing how little males give a shit about anyone but themselves. Also amazing how they think they’re so logical and not prone to emotions but they can never control their anger or lust and anger has become part of their lust so that they can not perform with another human at all. They can’t get a woman to come, so they just think of themselves and when they’re done, the sex is done. They think every sex act is based on their desires and wishes and feelings. They don’t think about how very stupid it is to jerk off on a female’s body while she’s just sitting there passively not receiving any pleasure whatsoever but he expects her to get off by HIM getting off. That’s the woman’s reward, eh? Your stupid dick sneezing its nasty putrid snot everywhere. Whee. Men are horrible lovers. They’re utterly DESTROYED by porn. Porn has taught them so much crap they don’t even know what they like or who they are. Their entire sexuality is hijacked by that industry that doesn’t give a shit about the guy, it just wants to fuel a lifetime addiction and if they can condition him to need their crap, they have a repeat customer for life. They become slaves to their dicks. And their sex is violent and angry and aggressive because anything other than that is “vanilla” and “boring.” Semen on a person’s face is NOT a compliment. It basically says, “I hate you and I can’t stand you and I’m going to distort your very identity by replacing who you are with my slime.” It erases that person’s IDENTITY. This is why psychologically it is very very harmful to hit a person (especially a child) in the face. The face represents your own SELF. If a woman wanted to pour her menstrual blood all over a man’s face and in his mouth and tell him to say how delicious it was and how turned on he was by it, wouldn’t that seem a bit weird? What if a man had to sit there doing nothing while a woman orgasmed while he sucked on her menstruating vagina? Would that seem like a damn COMPLIMENT to him and like his pleasure mattered at all? Yeah, didn’t think so. You are all so fucked up by porn you’re hopeless. Just like DeBeers brainwashed men into thinking they had to spend 2 freaking MONTHS of their salary on an engagement ring because the more you spend on it the more you literally LOVE your fiance. What a crock of horseshit. Men, you’re not logical. Not by a longshot. Not one tiny bit. You are utterly mastered by your penis and can not even think straight (scientifically proven!) when it gets involved. Talk about hormonal. You guys are on the proverbial “rag” 24/7.

Momo
Momo
3 years ago
Reply to  Momo

Oh yeah a lot of sex acts you see in porn, well you don’t see the aftermath, do ya? You don’t see the rectoceles and the cystoceles and the incontinence or hemorrhoids and other pelvic floor problems that women would have to go through after engaging in some of those very harmful behaviors. And you want regular every day normal women to sacrifice their long term health and well being just for your little dick. How utterly self absorbed you all are. Why don’t you just jack off on YOUR OWN FACE and pay yourself whatever compliment you think you’re giving. See how you like it and leave us females out of your madness.

practicalh
6 years ago
Reply to  Tiffany New

I suppose this depends on the reasons why you don’t like it. If you are physically disgusted by the act or generally it’s a turn off to you, and the guy absolutely insists on that, then it’s a problem. If, however, the reason you don’t like it is because of the negative meaning you attribute to it, then you should re-evaluate and try to understand that when the guy wants to come on your face, it is a compliment to you.