There are different reasons for why the conversations between people on dating apps so often hit a dead end quickly. Boring profile, boring first message and boring responses to message are not exactly the recipe for an engaging interaction that will intrigue both people and get them excited about meeting each other. In addition, many people deliberately put very little effort into their communication on the dating apps, believing that it’s beneath them to take it too seriously. Finally, the frustration with many prior mediocre experiences and results discourages people from putting their best foot forward when starting a conversation online, even if they are quite capable of doing the same. In the video below I discuss this issue and some ideas of how and why you should considering putting more effort into your conversation on dating apps.