We often use the term “double standard” to describe how many societal rules and customs are applied unequally to men and women. While many people perceive this double standard as wrong and unfair, and something that needs to be fixed, I would like to submit to you that having a double standard is absolutely normal…
Suppose you want to approach and meet a woman or perhaps you would like to ask out a woman who you already know. What frame of mind should you have in order to make a move with the right energy, confidence, and the right attitude and eliminate that debilitating fear or anxiety that most of…
Updated (January 7, 2015) – even though this article is less relevant today than back when it was written in 2007, since guys for the most part no longer call but text the girls they meet, I still want to encourage you very much to call, and not text, the first you are trying to…
Too many guys believe that there are some magic words out there using which will allow them to approach and meet any woman in any situation without feeling anxious or having the risk of being rejected. These guys spend a lot of time and many resources trying to find what those special words are.The reality is,…
Just about everyone has tried one form or another of trying to meet online, yet most people achieve no results or mediocre results. This is in large part because they don’t take the time to look at the big picture and ask themselves why. The truth is that like in any business, attracting people with…
Have you noticed that the best cafes and restaurants do not have the fanciest and the flashiest lobbies and the most expensive decor? Did it occur to you that the bars and clubs with the most moving music and the best atmosphere are almost always away from the main streets? Did you notice that the…
As I am hanging out at this trendy lounge with my girlfriend and four of her female friends, we are all sitting in a circle, talking, laughing and people watching. At one point, one of the girls whispers: “Wow, that guy is so cute… I wish he came up to me and introduced himself.” I…
Women pride themselves on being picky when it comes to meeting guys, be it in the real world or in the online dating arena. Being picky is a good idea, as he (or she) who has standards, will more likely get better results because they refuse to settle for less than something or someone that…