The video below brings both bad news and good news. The bad news is the effect that using Tinder and Bumble likely has on your ability to develop meaningful connections and attachments with people. The good news is that the are easy things you can do to stop this type of damage, especially if you…
In the video below, arguably the greatest male porn star of all times talks about the effect of promiscuity and how being involved in a sex industry emotionally damaged him and made him lose the ability to love and care. It’s a story of both – great personal sadness and also great personal awakening. What…
We all roll our eyes openly or mentally when looking at certain pictures of others, when we find them to be lame or ridiculous (or both). But, do all of your pictures on social media and dating apps pass the eye roll test? Both, the guy and the girl below are quite attractive and they…
Whether you are a guy or a woman, there are a few simple things you can do as early as talking to someone or on the phone, chatting online or meeting in person to communicate that you are a high quality and high value person that’s not easy to come by: Quality Writing Means Quality…
You might be one of the girls who belong to a “brand conscious” group. You really care to wear expensive brand named clothes, accessories, jewelry, and of course purses. It makes you feel attractive and empowered, especially if you worked hard for these luxury items you treat yourself with and paid for those expensive shoes,…
Here is a classic example of unattractive body language that I see men having all the time on dates. Upright, stiff posture, arms tightly folded in front and placed on the table as close to his body as possible. While this might no be what makes or breaks the date, it is certainly unflattering and…
This posting has been inspired by something that I noticed guys often do at the end of their conversation with a girl they just met in a social situation and they are interested in seeing again. Hearing this question really annoys me personally, and I am not 100% sure why, but here it is: “Are…