One common mistake that couples in relationships make is believing that getting married will smoothen any differences between them that they have had before their wedding. The idea, consciously or subconsciously, is that once you are forced into formally being together, you will work those little differences out one way or the other. But you…
There are two common questions that people who meet online love to ask when they finally go out on a date and meet each other in person, that don’t need to be asked, as they add nothing good to your conversation, and if anything – they interfere with any potential for that minimal mystery that…
The timing of sexual flirting – of what you say or write to a woman you are interested in is just as important of what you are saying. Look at the actual Bumble messages below. This is the type of sensual flirting that could really heat things up after the two of them actually met in person,…
Vindictiveness – it’s in all of us. Writers and artists have recognized the power of desire for revenge since ancient times – from writing books to making plays and operas about the power of human to get even. It’s a natural inclination for a lover who has been hurt to seek revenge  – in order…
In the video below I talk about what I think is the biggest obstacle that both men and women face today in their dating lives to finding real love and that romantic chemistry that pretty much everyone wants to have in their life:
A female readers asks: “How can I tell that the guy I met or consider dating is looking to settle down and be in a serious relationship and/or start a family, and he is not just looking to have fun and move on?” PH Answers:Â I believe that the signs that a man is looking…
When any fairly attractive or above girl logs into her dating profile on one of the major online dating sites, she sees an inbox, similar to her email inbox. On that page, she gets to preview the first few words of every new message she received from men. Â So, if your message start with “Hi,…
This statement about a social mask is made by one of the dating coaches for women I respect the most. When I saw it last night, it had really made me stop and think about its far reaching applications for a while. It talks about and says something so critically important for both men and…