A reader asks: I remember watching a video on your website where you stated that it’s a red flag when women return voicemails with text messages. I had an interesting experience this evening. I went on a first date on a Sunday, called her this evening (Tuesday), and in my voicemail I asked her on a…
In the video below, a Match.com “expert” provides what I believe to be some of the worst online dating advice there is. She urges users not to talk on the phone before they meet in person for their first date, because she believes that this will be an obstacle to establishing a connection and it…
So many guys and women are so concerned about coming across as too forward or too needy that they lean way too much in different direction. In this day and age of too much Facebook, too many text messages from too many people and too many things to do, a too big an ego may…
Punctuality is one of the most attractive qualities you can have whether you a guy or a woman, no matter what you age, location and other circumstances are. Being punctual will serve you well in all aspects of life – social, professional and romantic. There are three significant reasons why being punctual is such an…
Although men call the women they are interested in less and less and use texting as pretty much exclusive means of communication, I urge you to seriously consider calling the women you meet and who you are interested in, despite the fact that calling has becoming so uncommon. Here are six reasons why: (1) Calling…
The other day I glanced at a friend’s Bumble inbox. Every girl messaged him the same thing – “Are you originally from the bay area?” At first, this looked really lame and unoriginal to me, but then I thought – how can I blame the girls for sending these types of message, and how can…
A female in her mid 30’s asks: “I start chatting with this guy on a dating site. His replies seem to be well written. However, he only answers my questions but doesn’t ask me any questions. This makes our communication much more difficult. What does this mean and how I should handle it?” The fact…