Three Ways to Be A More Interesting Guy to Her on a First Date or Later

Being an interesting guy is one of the most important elements of attracting women, especially so many of them complain about the fact that most guys they meet are “all the same” – they are boring – they do and say the same things.

Here are three simple things you can do to stand out and come across as an interesting guy shortly after you met a woman:

1. Call her out of the blue and read a short section from an article/book on an interesting/thought provoking issue. It can be a piece admiring or criticizing a certain social issue or a witty review of a movie that both of you recently watched or anything else that caught your attention and you believe will be appreciated by her. Don’t be afraid to read something critical and negative. Any great, intelligent girl can handle a dose of reality, even if it’s on the bitter side. And you can be sure that very few guys in her life called her in order to quote something from a book they are reading.

2. Take a great photo of a skyline/sky that looks unusual and/or dramatic and forward it to her by e-mail with a short note, saying that you thought she might like the image and try to have her guess where you were standing when taking that photo. It will be even better if you take a few great shots while out of town and then, when sending the photos to her, you ask her to guess what city you went to.

3. Give her a compliment that she has never heard before from a guy. This means, compliment her on who she is and not what she looks like. Of course, it will take a while for you to know enough about her to make such a compliment, but that is the time when compliments are more meaningful anyway. If you see that she has been working and going to school for years, trying to build her career, you can say: “Your energy and motivation are quite amazing…what is the source of that strong drive of yours?” If she is very busy and works overtime all the time… you can even put a sarcastic spin on your compliment and say something like this, playfully:”I like a lot of things about you but there is one problem – you are kinna lazy. I think you should pick up another part time job.”

The above are just three examples of little, simple things you can do and say to be far more interesting than the vast majority of other guys and therefore be far more attractive to the opposite sex.