Women are often told not to “give it up” and not to sleep with guys too soon, if they want to try to develop any kind of meaningful connection and relationship with that guy. Whether true or not, there is a perception, at least in our society, that sleeping with guys too soon makes a…
There is one kind of advice that we constantly here, whether concerning dating or many other interpersonal matters, that is as common as it is useless or even harmful – “Just be yourself” We love saying this to others. It’s so easy. It doesn’t require any deep thought or analysis of one’s behavior. It doesn’t…
Ask any older person you know – ask any (former) “player”, male or female, who dated around for years, or who has been married and divorced several times or anyone else with a long dating resume – ask them about how many people they believe they were truly in love with and had a special…
Sometimes we call it an ego, and at other times we call it pride. Sometimes it really helps us, and at other times it hurts us in a way that could and should have been easily avoided. Is is possible that your ego stands in your way of having better dating life and relationships with…
Online dating presents unique challenges for older men. Here are five simple but effective tips on how any guy who is over 40 or over 50 can significantly improve his online dating profile that you can’t afford missing: 1. Make Sure that Your Dating Profile Photos Are Current I couldn’t count how many times I…
Some of the most “single” women who are literally obsessed with meeting guys that I have known and whose behavior I observed also struck as the most unapproachable and unfriendly looking. In an attempt to avoid at all costs coming across as too eager and too desperate, they go to another extreme and act like…
I am not sure if it’s a coincidence or it is a new pattern in cinematography to examine and re-evaluate what love actually means. At least three recent movies made their viewers ask this very question – what does loving someone actually mean? 1. “Her” This movie suggests that you can fall in love…