I can name a few movies that make the notion of unconditional love seem very real and appealing. Every now and then I hear someone say that they want to love someone unconditionally, and that they also expect to be loved unconditionally. They don’t like to hear me say that I don’t believe in the…
Did you ever ask yourself how often you think a typical girl is approached by a normal guy today , where he wouldn’t come across as creepy or lame? I assure you that no matter where the girl lives and how attractive she is, it doesn’t happen to her very often, especially today when more and…
There are two words that you should never use when asking a girl out. These two words might sound quite normal and innocent to you, but in the context of asking a woman out on a date – they are not, because these words are so weak and they make you appear so passive. These words are “hanging out.” When you…
There are certain words and moves that literally telegraph to women lack of confidence and assertiveness in men. These turn-offs to women are as important to know as they are easy to avoid: 1. Texting a girl after you got her phone number. This is a classic but common, passive behavior that is so unattractive….
One of the favorite excuses that so many guys use for not dating or not even meeting as many women as they like is their financial situation, coupled with accusing women of being greedy and materialistic. It’s easy to sit back and say something like “All that women care of is money and status, and…
One of the more common complaints that I hear from women about the guys they meet, is that so many guys are boring or at least come across as boring. This even includes some of the more educated and professional accomplished guys. There are several major reasons as to why so many guys come across…
My personal observations suggest that there are two mindsets that may be hurting your dating life: 1. assuming too much and too soon; 2. generalizing and stereotyping way too much. Both of these mindsets are particularly harmful because they affect every stage of men women’s dating life – from meeting guys and having that first…
In the unlikely event you haven’t yet heard, there is a whole world of blogs and dating advice out there condemning feminism and the underlying culture, called the manosphere. The authors of that manosphere message write extensive and often very entertaining articles about dating, women and the dynamics between the sexes that revolve around gender roles, feminism v femininity,…