In this inspirational article about going after what you want, Ryan O’Connell makes a great point about expressing your interest to the girl you are interested in. This article should be a reminder to every guy that the popular notion of being a challenge, playing hard to get, and not doing anything to appear needy or desperate should be put in perspective and not taken to far. Watch the video below about how to balance the idea of being a challenge with women and not acting need, while also showing confidence and going after what you want:
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Great advice. Some of the stuff about being a challenge is also marketed to women, and it of course can be equally damaging.
Great point you are making in this video. We tend to take the advice we hear about being a challenge way too literally way too often, which makes us lean to one of those extremes you mention. It's important to use your own brain when listening to advice and deciding to adopt it to your own behavior and interactions with the opposite sex.