Dating single mothers and divorced women has a serious stigma in many guys’ mind, which often has no rational basis. So many guys out there have a rule – they won’t date divorced women, and they surely won’t date a woman who has children. This is because they automatically assume that these women would be looking for a daddy for her children, or they won’t have any time to date, not realizing that many of those children have a father in their life, who they see regularly even if the parents are no longer together, and they have no need in having another “daddy.” Many of these divorced women and single mothers are also much better at time management and can make themselves more available to go out and date guys than the other girls.
There are at least three other compelling reasons you might enjoy dating single mothers and divorced women, and find dating them even a better experience that dating other women, who have never been married and who don’t have children:
1. Dating Single Mothers and Divorced Women Might be Better Because Divorced Women / Single Mothers They Have “Been There Done That”
Imagine not worrying that the girl you are dating has some kind of urgency to find Mr. Perfect as soon as possible, as she already knows from her own experience that there is no such thing. Her expectations are realistic and her priorities, when it comes to men, have matured to a point where her approach is more flexible. She is looking for emotional and intellectual connection, chemistry and love more than ever before, because her judgment is not affected as much as before by pragmatic considerations of settling as soon as possible, and doing everything “by the book”. Her list of deal-breakers when it comes to men and dating is probably much shorter as well.
2. Dating Single Mothers / Divorced Women Is More Fun Because They Usually Have Higher Sex Drive
By nature, difficult experiences help us get rid of our hang-ups and make us less uptight. They put things in perspective and make it more clear for us what truly makes us happy v what we think would makes us happy. The more of her complexes a woman gets rid of, the more likely she is to be able to let go and enjoy dating and intimacy with the man she likes without reservations. She will not only be dancing like no one is watching, but she will also be moaning and screaming during sex like no one can hear.
3. Single Mothers / Divorced Women Are More Interesting Than Younger, Less Experienced Women
Again, difficult experiences, such as raising a child or going through divorce make women let go and not take themselves as seriously. They become less uptight and better mentally equipped to handle humor, cynicism, and dark banter. For many guys this is one of the most important qualities in a woman, especially for those men who have had the bad fortune of dating one uptight, high-maintenance girl after the another.
You might soon discover that the more mature women who have children and who were married before can be great dating partners for the above reasons and more. Sure, some of them carry lots of baggage, and have all kinds of psychological issues as a result of getting divorced, child custody battles, etc… However, unless you are looking for Ms. Perfect yourself today, dating single mothers and divorced women can be a lot of fun, since these women bring a lot of life experience to the table, beyond all the other good things noted above.
3 reasons for not marrying divorced women with children:
1 Divorce rate for marrying divorced women with children now hovers around 65-70% (higher than the divorce rate of first marriages of ~50%)
2 Why should I assume the emotional and financial responsibility of raising someone elses kids? in most cases these kids come to resent the new step parent and cause strife/tension in the marriage
3 Why would anyone want to deal with the circus atmosphere created with remarriage with someone with children?? you can be sure the ex-husband/ex-inlaws are still in the picture and there will certainly be a lot of trauma/drama assoiciated with their visits
and you can also add to this the simple fact that these step-children no matter how much you “love” them are simply not yours-with time you will come to resent them
In the final analysis, it comes down to one's personal preference. My preference is simply NO KIDS!!!
That's perfectly fine and your right of course. And as we all know, the preference of not having kids is becoming more and more common these days.
I'm not sure I agree. I think it's hard enough as it is for a guy to get into a relationship while having to pass muster with the woman's friends AND family. And trying to get in good with a kid as well is just one more roadblock/headache/nightmare.
Many years ago, when I was trying to jumpstart my career, I realized early on that I did not want the burden and responsibility of having any kids. Luckily, I didn't. Thus, I never wanted to get into any dating situation with a woman who had kids. I admit, I did not want to get into a situation where I had to try to impress the kid, or worse, find myself in a situation where I might have to help raise that kid.
This may sound harsh, but this is the absolute truth: I never wanted any kids of my own, and I did not want to get into any complications with anyone else's kids. Selfish? Maybe. But, I was smart enough to avoid parenthood and all the headaches that go with it. And, happily, no one can ever accuse me of being a deadbeat dad.
For me, for better or worse, dating a woman with kids is absolutely nonnegotiable.
Given your situation, dating a divorced woman or the one who has children might be a perfect solution for the exactly the reasons that are mentioned in the article, and primarily – because you can actually move at a pace you want. You can usually keep your dating situation as light as you want, because she might just prefer to keep things light an casual for longer than other women, who haven't experienced what she had.
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I do pray that this letter meets you well,Though we havent met or sein each
other before but i believe that nature has a way of Bringing people Noether
for a Particular Purpose. I wish to contact you personally for a long term
relationship and investment assistance in your Country so I feel quite safe
dealing with you and I have a special reason why I decided to contact you
with due to the urgency of my situation here, i am Miss Doris Hassan
Maynard, 21 years old, the Daughter of late Mr. Maynard Hosny Hassan, i
lost my father some year back through a car accident on his way back to
home. After the burial of my late father,
I went to the bank for withdraw the money that my late father keep for my
future care so that I can take care of myself and start a new life but on
my arrival to the bank, the Director whom I met in person told me that my
father’s instruction/will to the bank is that the money would only be
release to me when I am married and I cannot trust anyone here that is why
I send you this letter for a long term relationship and investment
assistance in your Country.
However, my late father deposited the huge amount of $12,000,000.00 (Twelve
Million United State Dollar) in my name, I am in search of an honest and
reliable person who will help me and stand as my husband or legal guardian
so that I can present him to the Bank for transfer of the money to your
bank account overseas in other to travel down to your country for a long
term relationship and investment of the fund, I have chosen to contact you
after 21 days fasting and prayers and I believe that you will not betray
my trust. But rather take me as your own sister or daughther.
Once again, if you accept this offer, I will appreciate your timely
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Thanks and remain blessed.
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