The Future of Feminism and Dating in Big Cities

It is not unlikely that the next woman you meet and like is on the “rebound” – she just recently broke with someone or was dumped by someone, or she has just gone through a bad divorce, or she was otherwise disappointed in a guy who she really liked or even loved and hoped to…

Both men and women cheat on their relationship partners and spouses, even though infidelity has historically been far more common among men. However, the reasons for cheating between men and women are often very different. Men almost always cheat for the same reason –  they met someone who they found very attractive and sexually desirable,…

A question from a reader:  “I met this girl. We went out on a few dates, and I started to really like her and develop feelings for her. Then, out of the blue, she tells me that she is not ready to be in a relationship. What should I do, and how should I respond…

We have been encouraged so much over the past decade by the dating advice books and magazine to take things easy, to keep it light and casual when meeting someone new, not to put any pressure on each other and not have any expectations. We thus may have gone to the extreme of keeping those encounters…