Although pity fuck is somewhat of a popular term referring to a situation where one person, usually a girl, does a favor to a guy by sleeping with him out of pity for his lack of popularity among the members of the opposite sex, it almost never happens in real life!
It is evident that when it comes to giving and taking, dating/sex and business are very much alike. They are both somewhat cruel and unforgiving. Think about business and your behavior as a consumer – do you ever buy anything from a certain store because you feel sorry that the store doesn’t do very well and you would like to help by contributing to their bottom line? No! Do you ever go out to eat at a restaurant that you don’t like just because it’s not doing very well? I doubt it. This never happens. You purchase products and services that are of acceptable quality or higher, for an appropriate price (or lower) from an establishment that you believe you can rely and trust when it comes to customer service. That’s it. Consumers don’t engage in charity unless they go to a benefit event specifically designated to donate to charity (and where there is usually an open bar, tons of food, and lots of good looking people and/or business networking opportunity for those who attend).
The same exact principle applies to sex and attraction. A woman is not going to sleep with a guy because she feels sorry for him or because she wants to “help” him like it might be suggested in some cheesy high school movie. A woman will only be attracted to and sleep with a guy because she likes him and she wants to do it herself. A man who expressly or impliedly “asking” a woman to sleep with him is finding a sure road to being unattractive or even repelling to that same movie, like an overly aggressive marketer who is trying to “push” a product.
So, remember – even though it might sound very obvious to you, the right way to attract a quality member of the opposite sex for dating, sex, or a long term relationship, is by becoming more attractive and not by asking them to be with you or begging them to want you.
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