Why You Should Put More Effort Into Your Conversations on Dating Apps

There are different reasons for why the conversations between people on dating apps so often hit a dead end quickly. Boring profile, boring first message and boring responses to those initial messages are not exactly the recipe for an engaging interaction that will intrigue both people and get them excited about meeting each other. In addition, many people deliberately put very little effort into their communication on the dating apps, believing that it’s beneath them to take online dating too seriously. Finally, the frustration with many prior mediocre experiences discourages people from putting their best foot forward when starting a conversation online, even if they are quite capable of doing ir. In the video below I discuss this issue and some ideas of how and why you should considering putting more effort into your conversation on dating apps.

Live Stream On Defensiveness And Dating Defensive Women (and Men)

I believe that defensiveness is one of the most damaging qualities to the dating and relationship dynamics, especially in our (American) society, and… to pretty much any other interaction socially and even professionally. In this stream I discuss the various issues surrounding defensiveness in dating and what you can / should do to minimize this problem in your own dating life.