I am always looking for deeper reasons behind dating issues, because what’s underneath seems to be so much more significant than the superficial “I should / should not have said or done this or that”. The repeating issues in communication between people on dating apps are not an exception. The reason that most of these…
You should not be doing anything sexual with your partner unless you really want to. This is not about consent. This is about the essence of physical intimacy, and this especially applies to oral sex, which shouldn’t happen out of any type of sense of obligation. “I went down on you, so it’s only fair…
I can’t think of any benefit in sharing how many people you slept with before meeting that most recent person you started seeing. This is of course especially true, if your body count is alarmingly high. What purpose would disclosing this information serve, and how would it make your connection better, unless your new partner…
Remember that time you contacted a bunch plumbers or accountants or event doctors becuase you needed their services? Did you really think of those few, who got back to you within an hour or two and were ready to help, as too needy and desperate? I doubt it. You must have thought of them as…
Here are a few useful observations for any woman who feels she has been used by men over and over without being able to built anything deeper and more meaningful: Men Who Are Interested in More Than Just Sex Act The Same As Women Would When you start talking to a guy who is interested…
While your dog can be one of the best ice breakers to start a conversation with anyone, brining it on a date is usually a mistake. No matter how cute your dog is, bringing it to a (first) date with someone you hardly know will necessarily be a distraction, and you will not be able…
A male reader asks about whether splitting the bill on a first date is a bad idea. I have a simple answer – yes, it’s really bad idea if you are actually intersted in the girl. To many you will appear cheap and the whole gesture will feel petty and unromantic. While it might not…
Not being asked any questions about yourself on a date is one of the most common complaints today by both men and women. This is understandably a frustrating behavior, if you are hoping to establish some kind of connection with whoever it is you are out. Understanding what causes this behavior will point you in…