A Reddit user asks: I matched with this hot girl on Hinge and we were having a good conversation. That’s until she brought up politics, and we kind of had an argument being on different sides of the issue. She was like let’s agree to disagree, but instead of taking the hint and changing the…
I am all about giving just about anyone the benefit of the doubt and not judging them by just one fact or one thing they say or believe in. However, there are things that some women say about themselves that should not only be a red flag, but they should be a full stop-sign to…
I don’t care who you are, where you live, or whether you are a guy or a woman. I don’t care how old you are and what your ethnicity is. Your gym selfies don’t add anything positive to your dating profile. They also don’t add anything good to your social media page, unless you are…
A friend recently unmatched a girl on hinge because in response to asking her what kind of food she likes and otherwise hinting at asking her out, she responded with just “What do you do?” He thought it was so lame and uncalled for that he immediately deleted their chat as he just couldn’t see…
I very much enjoyed speaking with my friend, who moved from SF to NYC and who has been posting non stop about how much happier he is now, in large part because of a far better experiencing meeting women and going out on dates. This might just be a matter of being the new guy…
I am always looking for deeper reasons behind dating issues, because what’s underneath seems to be so much more significant than the superficial “I should / should not have said or done this or that”. The repeating issues in communication between people on dating apps are not an exception. The reason that most of these…
You should not be doing anything sexual with your partner unless you really want to. This is not about consent. This is about the essence of physical intimacy, and this especially applies to oral sex, which shouldn’t happen out of any type of sense of obligation. “I went down on you, so it’s only fair…
I can’t think of any benefit in sharing how many people you slept with before meeting that most recent person you started seeing. This is of course especially true, if your body count is alarmingly high. What purpose would disclosing this information serve, and how would it make your connection better, unless your new partner…