Below is an example of a real response to a woman’s profile that leads to a great dating situation and eventually a relationship. As I point out in my audio programs, attracting a woman online and off line requires that you demonstrate that you are (1) interesting; (2) different; and (3) funny. I believe that the response to a woman’s profile below is a great example of that. For your convenience, I insert comments in smaller font throughout this brief response to show exactly why it’s so effective.
Profile of “lawgirl82”
About Me
I am conscientious, dedicated, emotional, honest, and genuine. I have a tendency to be a bit dramatic, and sometimes bossy. But for the most part, I am easy going!
My First Date Idea
I think it is nice to go to dinner and take the time to talk and get to know each other. Regardless of hitting it off, it might be a great way to make a new friend.
Initial response:
Hey, there. (Good short greeting. None of that generic, boring “I liked what I read, I like you picture, you sound nice” stuff that she must have heard 100 times before).
“Dramatic and bossy” – few people can be truly honest and even fewer can be honest with themselves about who they are. (this comment relevant to her profile shows that he actually read what she had to say and has a somewhat philosophical observation to share with her that suggest that he is an interesting guy) Thus, I found your “admission” of being dramatic and bossy quite admirable, because it suggests that you can reflect on your own behavior – a quality that should not be taken for granted.(this is a compliment but is very different from a typical compliment – it’s very specific and not overly generous)
So, “lawgirl82” – you don’t look tough enough to be a cop or FBI agent. But if I put together “lawgirl” and “bossy and dramatic” this equation gives me “a lawyer.” How is my math here? 🙂 (tasteful humor and sarcasm and shows the responder’s personality; a follow up question to continue a conversation and provoke a woman to respond)
More importantly, how is her majesty spending these pleasant days and evenings? A. (calling her “majesty” is again a showing of wit and sense of humor; ending an e-mail with a question is an effective way to make a woman respond, because answering a question is so much easier and more “tempting” than simply writing something.)
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The other thing I like about this response is that it’s of perfect length. It shows effort and creativity but at the same time it won’t bore a woman and won’t make her read something that’s far too long and… “tedious.”
Thanks, and I hope your find this example useful. And if you want to take your ability to meet women on the internet to another level, check out my audio program “Powerful Online Dating”
