A Major Attraction Killer in Women

I am a big fan of relationship expert Renee Wade (thefemininewoman.com). Unlike so many others jezebel-alikes, she can really understand what men want from and in a woman and what men wish to avoid and she gives candid insight into how a woman can make herself more attractive to the opposite sex and find the kind of relationship she is looking for. In one of her articles, Renee makes a very important observation that all single women, especially the ones residing in large cities, should read very carefully, because it is so true:

“Women have been habitually masculinized by the modern society.

Many women today live a very masculine life. They take on a masculine job, speak in a masculine tone of voice and act and hold themselves as if they are competing with other men.

There’s nothing wrong with this by the way, it’s our birthright to achieve the results we want; just as good and better results than me are.

However… being in the masculine energy will instantly kill the attraction that most men will feel for you. Why? Because they’ll feel like you’re just like another “guy” friend and there would simply be no polarity.

For attraction to occur between a man and a woman, there has to be the masculine-feminine polarity. And without it, you can still be great friends…but achieving attraction…is impossible.

So most of us women (who have learnt to get a good paying job, secure that career…etc) need to come back to our feminine core and spirit. It’s that femininity that sometimes we have lost touch with… that will be most attractive to men.

This is not to say we need to give up our career, it just means that you can’t always live in your masculine mode all the time. You have to achieve a balance between femininity and getting results in your career/business.”

Although polarity is not a new concept, the critical importance of femininity and the romantic/sexual tension it creates with the masculine seems to be often overlooked or underestimated these days.  After all, what makes a woman attractive and desirable to men are the differences, and not the similarities, between her and the male kind.

There is one kind of men out there who like manly women – these are the submissive guys aka “betas”. The rest will do what they can to stay away from a woman who is trying in so many ways to prove to the world and to herself that he penis is just as long as that of any guy out there.