Even though this example is not completely realistic, and the “beta” in this video is quite confident, what every guy needs to pay attention to in this video is the general attitude of the alpha guy v the beta. For alpha, approaching and talking to girls is a daring and fun act. His demeanor also suggests that he knows that he is attractive and he has something to offer. It surely is easy to feel that way if you actually have something to offer. The beta, on the other hand, seems to act and talk like he is asking a girl for a favor, which always the wrong approach. After all, a woman can only be attracted to you for who you are, how you act and the value you bring to her in term of emotional, and intellectual stimulation; not because you are nicely asking her to go out with you or spend time with you.
Example of the Differences between Alpha and Beta Guys
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Where was any semblance of hope in that video? YIKES!!!
I don't agree that the beta guy is doing everything wrong; in fact the fact that he approaches girls and talks to them is more than 99% of the other guys do. However, I love love love how the Alpha says "How about I just right you a check!" – it would be fun to try it in real life. I just hope I don't get slapped.
To be honest, this was painfully awkward to watch and even the "alpha" guy came off as really awkward. I disagree with the idea of alpha/beta and trying to be an "alpha", but I agree with the overall point that you have to assert yourself and be proud when you talk to a woman instead of acting like you might be bothering her in any way.