It has been scientifically proven that body language and eye contact are the dominant factors in creating attraction and are far more important than words. When it comes to learning attractive body language and eye contact, none of the words and descriptions of what you should and should not be doing will do as good of a job as actually watching and learning those important elements of behavior by observing real people in action.
While you might not always have the opportunity to see an example of great body language in real life, there are quite a few movies out there that can be very useful guides. One such movie is “Victim of Love”. It might not be the most original movie, and some would consider it downright cliche, but the beginning of movie can literally be a guide to attractive male body language and seduction. Sure, it’s just a movie and all the character are fictional, but many aspects of Pierce Brosnan character’s behavior and body language in that movie are realistic and can be incorporated into your own life.
Get that movie and watch the first 20 minutes carefully. Pay particular attention to how Brosnan looks at the woman the first time he sees her, how he interacts with her for the first time, how he carries himself and how he behaves when he dances with her. Notice how little he talks and how much tension the silence brings into the scene. Of course, this kind of behavior doesn’t always work, and it surely helps to be as handsome as Brosnan, but whoever doesn’t quite understanding what flirting and seduction are, the beginning of the movie is a textbook guide to that.
I love this movie. Of course, you have to be as attractive and well dressed as the main charcter in this movie is to have remotely that kind of effect on women when you approach and make a move, but surely there is plenty to learn here from the character's confidence, body language, the eyes and even the way he jokes. Also, this movie is another remind how talking less might actually be more attractive and make the whole process more interesting and mysterious.