Romantic chemistry is an illusive yet very commonly used term. Although most people would have a hard time defining what chemistry between the two people means exactly, we all like to use that word to describe a connection that we have with the other person when we enjoy each other's company finding each other interesting, funny, sharing various specific views, and feeling strong sexual attraction toward each other. On the other hand, "lack of chemistry" is a blanket statement that we like to use to describe a situation in which we are not attracted to the other person even though he/she could be great in many ways, and we can't quite explain why.

So, what is a good way to find out quickly and reliable whether there is chemistry between you and your date whether it's your first date or later? One of the most effective ways to accomplish this is by having the most simple, the most "boring" dates. Interesting enough, when there is chemistry between two people they really, really enjoy being with each other even if they do absolutely nothing. Thus, if you invite a woman over to your place and you just have a great time sitting next to each other and watching a bad tv show, or just talking and then possibly going to bed together and enjoying intimacy, then obviously you have great chemistry - a connection that doesn't depend on external sources of entertainment.

On the other hand, if as soon as you are planning a date, one of you or both of you is really anxious to figure what what you are going to be doing once you meet, because being in a company of each other doesn't really do anything for either of you or both of you, it is a pretty strong indication that there is no good romantic chemistry between the two of you and there must be a better person out there for you to date.

Many guys feel compelled to come up with creative destinations for their dates. Ironically, the most common reason for that is that the woman they are going out with or about to go out with is not the right one for them, or it's because they haven't learned yet how to become and be interesting to the opposite sex.

So, whenever you are going out on a date, do not worry so much about picking a unique destination. Rather focus on learning how to be interesting and using this simple way to find out whether there is that chemistry between you and her that you are interested in having.