Just Because She Looks Modest Doesn’t Mean She is Frigid

modest girlSome guys confuse and mistake a woman’s modesty and low-key behavior for a low sex drive or total frigidity. The two don’t always go together. In fact, often a woman with a high sex drive and all kinds of sexual fantasies acts or carries herself in a modest way for all kinds of reasons that have nothing to do with her sexuality.

Looking and dressing modestly might be part of a girl’s culture or religion, but this doesn’t mean that she is celibate and that she plans to remain a virgin until she gets married. It’s also possible that a girl, who doesn’t show off and doesn’t dress provocatively, doesn’t want to be checked out by every guy on the street. She just wants to save her beauty and sex appeal for the guy she is interested in or someone she is already dating. Perhaps wearing tight pants, short skirts, and stilettos in common social situations makes her feel uncomfortable, but it’s not because she doesn’t want to be admired for her beauty by the right guy or doesn’t enjoy sex.

Don’t assume that a modest woman is not interested in sex. A total opposite might be true. The most modest looking woman out there might just surprise you by being a total nymph in bed and by having the kind of fantasies that would humble even your rich imagination. Just because she didn’t draw your attention to her sexuality with her behavior and demeanor when you met her doesn’t mean that you won’t discover a wild tigress in her later. That tigress might just need a little bit of time and the right guy to be awaken and ready to “pounce” you, but you have to make sure you don’t overlook one just because of her appearance and low-key demeanor.

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8 years ago

This is so true. I can think of a number of examples of girls that I have known in school who seemed very quiet and low key, but once you get to know them, there is so much more to them than meets the eye. I think it comes in large part from the fact that those girls like to read romantic novels, and as a result have all kind of romantic and sexual fantasies.

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8 years ago
Reply to  Chrisk

That's a very interesting point. I can imagine that girls who read more tend to be more quiet and introverted, at least in social situations where they don't know many people. However, the ones who read classic literature about love, romance, passion, etc… also have things on their mind that other girls, who don't read, don't have.