The Real Reason Men End Up Dating Bitches

Unlike what some popular books out there, and specifically “Why Men Marry Bitches” suggest, the real reason that so many guys love or more correctly – end up with women, who would easily qualify as bitches, is strikingly simple – it’s because these guys are not picky enough. It’s not like they go out with a number of kind, generous, relatively non-dramatic, and feminine women and then say: “Ok, I have had enough of those really sweet and soft girls. Now, I want something better – I want a bitch.”  The problem is the opposite. So many guys don’t go out with enough girls who are not bitchy, and they settle way too early – not for what and who they want, but for who they can get. Many guys never even experience the better kind of women, so they think that all the women out there are bitches. Therefore, these guys don’t even know that they are missing out on being with a much better woman and in a much better relationship.

Further, part of being a bitch is being aggressive. Therefore, by nature women who can be safely considered bitches are better able to hold on to the guy they are with if they want to, and are inclined to pressure him to commit. While this kind of pressure is not going to work on the guy who is not interested in settling down with her, if that guy is on the fence about whether he wants to commit to her, that kind of pressure might be instrumental and persuasive in getting him to settle down or even propose and marry.

Quite a few of my male friends proposed to their girlfriends after these women gave them the “put a ring on it” deadline. Sure, it’s not the most romantic way to go about proposing, but at least for some relationships it works and that’s the push that the guy needs in order to take that relationship to the next level. Whether it’s going to work out or not is a different story, but a pressure by a more aggressive woman will make a guy take some action in one direction or another.