Do Men Really Like to Date Bitches (A question from a woman)

(Last Updated On: 05/19/2017)

dating bitchesQuestion: I’m not sure if you’ve heard of these books, but i’ve a read a book called ‘Why Men Love Bitches’ and i’ve read one called ‘Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man’ and in a way they contradict each other, it would be good if you could do a review on them or your perspective (as a guy). For example, the first book makes it seem as though men are attracted to women who are independent and rely on themselves completely (financially etc), and are attracted to girls who seem like their life is fulfilled regardless of him being a part of it. Whereas, the other book states that men want to be with a woman who they feel needs them & that it is innate for them to feel the need to provide for her/protect her & they wouldn’t feel the need to be with her otherwise.
Obviously, in the end everyone is attracted to different things, but it would be good to get another view. 

Answer: I guess the question could be summarized into whether men really like bitches. I could see how the message that the above books convey seem to be contradictory, and here are my thoughts. Please bear in mind that the following is just an opinion of one man, even though I am trying to be as objective as I can, and I am sure that many other men would agree with me, especially if they decide to be brutally honest about their sexuality.

First, obviously different men want a different kind of woman. They say that opposites attract, and often it seems to be true. Aggressive “bitchy” women get along with the more sweet and “docile” men, and the very masculine “alpha” males are often attracted to the more traditional, feminine woman.

In addition, here is a number of other observations. Bitchy women might be purely sexually more arousing to a guy, because that’s the attitude that’s simply sexually appealing because it communicates a degree of dominance, which is a turn-on. It’s the same type of behavior as the attitude of a model on a runway who looks very confident or even stuck up, whose nose is high up and who thinks that she is all that. When a woman acts like she is hot and she is all that, it makes her look “hotter” to the unarmed male eye, so to speak. This of course does not make her more attractive as a person or more desirable as a relationship partner. On the contrary, the downsides of being  a bitch far outweigh any benefits in the long run.

For some guys, getting a bitch, dating and having sex with one is a personal challenge. These men might have been successful at meeting, attracting and dating the “softer” kind and are now ready to the more difficult conquests. They might be turned on by the idea of a woman who is loud, argumentative and competitive – the one who will disagree just for the sake of showing that she can, and that no one can control her. The one who has to demonstrate her independence in every way possible, and the one who is notoriously hard to get along with, because these men either excited by the idea of being dominated or they are just as excited about the idea of trying to tame that type of a woman and put her in her place.

 

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