The Best Date You Can Ever Have

the best date possibleHave you ever asked yourself what would make the date with someone you really love and whose company you crave mentally and physically to be the best date ever and the best date you can possibly have?

I would like to suggest to you an answer to this question, which might be somewhat obvious and more so to men than to women, but also hard to admit – to others and to yourself. The best date that a you can possible have with someone you are in love with is being in bed with each other the entire time, having sex every which way possible, kissing each other, touching each other, laughing together and reminiscing on the silly/ridiculous things you have been doing together or witnessed together, among many other things you can do together while in bed. No fancy dinner or an exciting trip or a hike in a beautiful, picturesque area can match this kind of date, if you have the kind of romantic chemistry and sexual attraction that would make you want to be in bed with each other for a long time. This doesn’t mean that you should be in bed together every waking moment, but it does mean that it should be high on your list of “priorities.”

Some people feel guilty about having dates like this, because they feel like they are just using each other or are being used for sex, or because they feel that they should be doing something “active” or “outdoorsy” when what they really want is being in bed with each other for a few hours or longer. They want to avoid feeling like fuck-buddies. It’s important to abandon this kind of hypocritical way of thinking. We need to be honest with ourselves about who we are and what makes us really happy and look at it from a different angle.

If you are attracted to each other both physically and otherwise, wanting each other physically and preferring to have sex over other activities should be a great compliment, not an insult, to you. Your partner can go hiking or biking with anyone else, including any of his friends. Enjoy “using” your lover for his/her body and enjoy being used. Infatuation is one of the greatest joys a human being can experience, and it’s not that easy to find. Enjoy not pretending that you need to have dinner or go to a concert to have a “real” date before you get to have sex, if that’s not what you or your partner want on that specific day. If you are both busy and are only able to spend a limited amount of time with each other, but you really want each other, being in bed together for 3-4 hours is a probably a much better date for you than going to a movie for 1.5 hours, eating for one hour and then only being able to be intimate for an hour or less.

It’s important that you are not ashamed of what you want, especially when your desire means how much you like and crave your partner’s body.  Be proud of it and be proud to share it with your partner, if he wants you as much as you want him. And don’t forget to be grateful for having the kind of mutual chemistry and attraction that allow you to have this, as it’s not that easy to find this day and age. And, if you are a woman, it’s important that you don’t assume that just because they guy really wants to be in bed with you, it means that this is the only thing he wants. Although it’s possible, this is not necessarily the case.

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