Great Pick-up in the Park
Every time I hear some guy start a conversation with a girl in a situation where most guys would find it very challenging, I have to recognize over and over that the most effective ways … Continue reading
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Does Your Defensiveness Hurt your Dating Life
Recently, one of the readers asked the following questions: “I recently responded to a girl’s dating profile. I wrote a nice, witty, and interesting first e-mail to her. I signed it with my name and … Continue reading
Make Other People’s Lack of Originality Work to Your Advantage
More and more people complain about the lack of originality that the opposite sex seems to be suffering from these days when it comes to dating – from flirting to first dates, and of course – … Continue reading
Online Dating Profile Review – What is Wrong with These Two Profiles?
Read the excerpt from two actual female online dating profiles below and ask yourself whether there is anything wrong with them: Profile No., 1. “My Self Summary: I am a happy, positive and energetic person. I have … Continue reading
Jenn v The Feminist Gang (Guest Posting)
The other day I attended a party, and the attached men I saw there reminded me of the crabs holed up in them big aquariums at a store. The men huddled by the grill cooking slabs … Continue reading
The Case of the Golden Vagina (Guest Posting)
Many on my female friends consider me the poster woman for the Feminist Agenda. Just because a bad man betrayed me with my best friend and left me to raise four kids on my own, … Continue reading
How to Let Your Femininity Shine Early On
It’s not a secret that men are attracted to women who are feminine on just about any fundamental level – biologically, physiologically and sexually. Femininity is probably the single most attractive quality in a woman … Continue reading
Is Meeting Quality Single Guys a Matter of Luck?
Too many women believe that meeting a quality, interesting, ambitious, confident, and funny guy is a matter of fate, luck, or some mysterious set of circumstances that will bring you and him together by total … Continue reading
First Date Mistakes: A Seemingly Harmless Question that Can Ruin Your First Date
As I point out in my videos, articles, and audio programs, analyzing the process of dating can kill or at least significantly chill romantic tension faster than anything else. Therefore, seemingly harmless statements or questions that inquire into … Continue reading
Three Major “C-ckblockers”
Here is a recent posting from the Craigslist missed connections w4m section in Northern California: “To the gentleman I sat next to on the 33 bus around 1:30pm today… I got on at Dolores Park … Continue reading
My Friend’s Pick-Up Line – Simple, Natural and Very Effective
Every time my friend, who lives about a 5-hour drive away comes into town, he reminds me every time about how good he is at approaching and starting conversations with women. He is in his mid … Continue reading
The Downside of Getting Her Number Too Quickly
Many dating experts suggest that one great way to “pick up” a woman is the so-called “one-minute approach” – you see a woman, approach her, strike up a quick conversation, then you tell her that … Continue reading
“Do You Do This Often?”
As I point out in my videos, articles, and audio programs, analyzing the process of dating with your date chills and/or kills romantic tension faster than almost anything else. Therefore, seemingly harmless statements or questions that get into … Continue reading
Are You Sure You Notice the Best Women When You Are Out?
As I go out to different bars and clubs with my friends, I can’t help but notice how they make the same mistake over and over. They will spot five or so of the hottest … Continue reading
How to Avoid Wasting Time When You Meet Her Online
Here is a common scenario that many guys who try to meet women on the online dating sites experience: they contact a girl, exchange a few e-mails, and then ask her for her phone number. … Continue reading
“Victim of Love”, Attractive Body Language, and Seduction
It has been scientifically proven that body language and eye contact are the dominant factors in creating attraction and are far more important than words. When it comes to learning attractive body language and eye … Continue reading
Love and Need for Space in a Relationship
I can’t help but notice the many “tired” couples that walking around town on Sunday afternoon. Many of them look so exhausted that they literally drag their feet. When I see them, I know that … Continue reading
A Simple Way to Spice Up Your First (or Second) Date
There are many simple ways to bring excitement into your dates and make yourself stand out from most or all the other guys that the woman you go with ever met went out with. One … Continue reading
One of the Biggest Obstacles to Improving Your Dating Life
One great obstacle that many people face toward improving their dating life is believing that meeting more people and being able to find someone who you would love and someone who would love you back is something that you either have … Continue reading
Being a Single Woman in a Small Town and Meeting Men
Yesterday, I had a casual and very pleasant conversation with a woman who was visiting in town from the midwest. She was probably in her early 40′s, fairly attractive and very fit. As it turned … Continue reading
Is Your Cellphone Your Friend or the Enemy of Your Dating Life?
When it comes to dating, and especially in the early stages of seeing someone, your cellphone can be your good friend allowing you to be in touch with the person you like and show how much you … Continue reading
What Does It Mean Being a Classy Guy?
Like defining a classy woman, defining what being a classy man means is not an easy task, as there is probably no one clear definition or one trait or quality that makes a man classy … Continue reading
Handling Arguments and Fighting with Women
About a month ago, my father shared a joke or an analogy with me. As simple and trivial as it may sound, it is very important for guys who are trying to date a girl steady or … Continue reading
Three Tips for Better Online Dating Profile Photos for Women
Here are three simple rules to make sure that the photos you post on your online dating profile are flattering to you and don’t make you look less attractive to the male viewers: 1. You are … Continue reading
How to Forgive a Cheater
Few events are more hurtful in a relationship or even in life in general than being cheated on by your beloved or spouse. And, of course, the more you love and care about the other … Continue reading
Reasons This Online Dating Profile Picture is So Flattering
After discussing the bad online dating profile photos that women post, I wanted to share one photo that I consider to be very good, and discuss the specific reasons what makes this photo so attractive and … Continue reading
Being Vanilla Isn’t Attractive to Interesting, Quality Women
A few weeks ago I set up a blind date for one of my tennis buddies with a girl. She is educated, professional, quite attractive physically, feminine, not uptight, easy to talk to, and can take … Continue reading
Why I Like This Pick-Up Line So Much…
There is one pick-up line that proves over and over to be very effective among many guy, and yet it so simple, that I can’t help but nominate it to be one of my favorite ways to start a conversation … Continue reading
Does This Texting Habit Push Women Away from You?
One of the more common mistakes guys make when texting girls without ever realizing how big of a mistake it is, is as simple as it may be fatal to developing any kind of attraction and … Continue reading
Online Dating Advice for Women: Don’t Scare Men Away with Your Athletic Pictures
One misconception that misleads both men and women in many aspects of dating and relationships is forgetting the simple fact that men and women are not alike. We are built differently, we think and feel in many … Continue reading
When He Asks You Out to Dinner on Your First Date
In addition to the important first date dinner tips for guys, which in many ways also apply to women who accept dinner date invitations from men, the are three more important points that apply to women when it comes … Continue reading
Six Tips For Better First Dates When You Ask Her Out to Dinner
Six tips for guys to make the most out of your dinner dates, and to avoid the common mistakes that make those dates a failure. Continue reading
How to Compliment Women the Right Way
Learn how to compliment women the right way and make you come across as a more attractive and charismatic guy. Continue reading
One Way to Make a Guy Fall in Love with You
The other day I had dinner with my friend and his girlfriend. They have been dating for just over a year. She was feeding him, but… not across the table, like you would normally see, … Continue reading
Why Women Have One Night Stands
Over the past few months I have done one interesting research. First, I found 25 women between the ages of 25 and 40 who actually had one or more one-night stands during the past 10 years, … Continue reading
Another Weak Question You Should Not Be Asking Girls (or Guys)
The other weak move, besides asking a girl to hang out with you, is asking a girl who you started seeing recently, or who yo went out on a date with, how her day is going. This question sounds … Continue reading